I just asked for advice about my boyfriend constantly disappearing on me, but i am scared to leave because i have 3 children from my ex-husband, and now a baby with him. it was hard finding someone who didn't judge me with the first 3 and not i feel doomed...help- do i still leave??
2006-09-18 12:09:50 · 10 answers · asked by butterflykisses1085 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you cant leave him without actually talking to him. call him and ask him what the hell is going. have a deep conversation and see where you are at in the relationship. good luck. cheers.
2006-09-18 12:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about what's best for the children. I don't think a man who disappears all the time is setting a good example for family life. Better to be with a single, devoted mom than parents who don't trust wear the other has been. I'm about ready to divorce my husband, since he has abused me over my keeping our 2nd child. He never wanted another and is now verbally abusive every day of my pregnancy. I'm so tired and want out, but I hate that the children will be without their father. It's a terrible choice to make, but consider yourself lucky to HAVE the choice.
2006-09-18 12:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by mom2be 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship has been bad enough to leave and you dont see a change in him. Leave him, you can make him grow up this way and if he changes later fine but right now with 3 kids you need to worry about yourself. Reltionships are not what you should be thinking about with three kids.
2006-09-18 12:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave. You only live once and you should be happy. You don't need someone hurting you. You deserve so much better. You don't need a man in your life to make you happy. Focus on yourself and your kids.
2006-09-18 12:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by joyall57 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what you think is best for you and your children. The children should always come first...no woman ever needed a man...everything he can do for you, you are capable of doing for yourself...just believe in yourself take care of your children.
2006-09-18 12:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You gotta do, what you gotta do. Yes it will be harder finding someone, but eventually you will. You need to talk to him and see why he is leaving. Make your choice after speaking with him though. Good luck
2006-09-18 12:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump the gun. Try hard to work it out first. Your options are very limited. unless your rich. You have way tomany kids to make it on your own.
2006-09-18 12:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by ryan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if you think its better for the children or not.
2006-09-18 12:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are better off leaving him
2006-09-18 12:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using you and does not love and respect you!
2006-09-18 12:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋