2006-09-18 12:04:43 · 33 answers · asked by svk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not all men do, some men do.. for many different reason.. Like my husband, i know he loves me, but he's not a 19 yr old kid anymore and he's not as sexually active as he once was, doesnt mean we dont have sex, but its not as much as i wish it would be as im a very sexual person, he isnt.. i cant even use it to my advantage, cause he can go with out sex longer then i can lol..
2006-09-18 13:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him get in shape; more muscle equals more testosterone! Also, can it be that he's a little older and can't work as hard as he used to and he gets home just plain tired? Get him One-a-Day vitamins and antioxidants. Instead of challenging his manhood, why not put on a few porno videos and ask him to tell you what he thinks? DON'T get sexy when he's watching a Football game or a Basketball or Baseball game! Sheesh, women LOVE to do that! That is REALLY annoying, and it shows how grossly inconsiderate and selfish women can be. Suggest a mini-vacation away from home for a an extended weekend (leave early Friday and return late Monday).
2006-09-18 13:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the imagination is not put into use in the sex life of the marriage
we guys get bored. Try different things, wigs, outfits. One Friday nnight both of you go to a bar in different vehicles. Pretend you do not know each other and let him pick you up. Then take him home and f--k his brains out. He should give some suggestions on new things to do as well. Ask him what some of his fantacies are.
2006-09-18 12:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two decades is a lengthy time period. Marriage is confusing because the expectancies for being honest are so clean reduce. Infidelity is so frowned upon. yet what does a spouse do at the same time as as she a lengthy time period, she desires sex so a lot more advantageous than her getting older husband? women heavily hit their best and adult males decline. save up the oral sex and per chance watch some horny videos to get him aroused. sex should not be a chore yet must be relaxing, so that you've gotten to get resourceful and introduce some new issues in case you decide on to proceed to be honest.
2016-11-27 23:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't, some men just don't understand that when a woman wants sex...it is a brief moment compared to their gender opposite of men's... where men are always having to tame it! If more men only knew they would be greatly satisfied beyond their wildest dreams if they could take advantage of the brief moments women are encouraging it....perhaps marriages would last longer! Most men want
it when they want it and can get it whenever they want it from their wives usually they do win it every time...But if your man never wants it honey...he is either drinking too much...watching too much porn...too much masturbation... has a prostrate issues...or just
is under too much stress in his life! Do be careful not to accuse him..you will drive him away...just take it when he offers it and enjoy it when you can...sorry it is just the way it is with most men, because their ego's are like women's feelings....very sensitive...and taboo! Remember God has given you the gift of Marriage is a JOB that God wants you to do well...pray for your mate! Get real
with God, learn His ways, His Word...give your life more meaning and watch the blessings fall into place in your marriage and your life!
2006-09-18 12:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that gurl but I've been married 12+yrs and my husband is far from lost interest in sex with me. We have sex on a daily basis and alot of times more than daily basis. But then again I'm VERY sexual and he loves that, plus I'm defintely not a wifey that doesn't say no. It's all Yes All the time for me lol
2006-09-18 12:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you mean, "Why has MY HUSBAND lost interest in sex after a few years of marriage?"
2006-09-18 12:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 58 years old, and I cannot answer for other men. I do not have the problem, but my wife told me that she can go without it, and that she does not need it.
I am always thinking of new things to do. To answer your quesiton, I do not know. It is a mutual thing. Both partners needs to come up with new ideas together.
I hope you like my answer.
2006-09-18 14:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can get lazy and complacent.
They can be stressed out and/or depressed.
They can be angry with their woman.
They can lose interest in their woman because they need variety or the woman has "let her self go" in some way/s.
It could be any combination of the above.
2006-09-18 12:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of a man not wanting sex as much. Spice things up or something.
2006-09-18 12:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋