What do you have to do to get the right man and not date weirdos?

Question

How does one get this right? (If you are a little shy, how do you break away from it) Especially if you haven't dated a lot for a while?Any suggestions?

Not into the bar scene, or regular social outside stuff

Answer 1

First of all, don't go searching for anyone, when you stop looking that is when the "right" guy will come along. Give yourself time. Also, you will have to go through many "wierdos" inorder to get to "Mr. Right". Just remember to not settle and hold on to your expectations, he will come.

Answer 2

Well, if you don't do social stuff, how do you meet anyone to date? You have to do SOMETHING to put yourself into a situation with singles. A social tye setting would allow you to meet someone and get to know a little about them before you date. Look for clubs or hobby groups that you can share a common interest.

Answer 3

You might want to look in the mirror and do a little introspective research first.

- Are you unwittingly the biggest cause of the problem?
- Are you unwittingly attracting weirdos?
- Are you unwittingly drawn to wierdos?
- What exactly do you want in a man? What attracts you to a man? And, are these two things in sync?

Answer 4

Change your selection criteria. Your always ending up with weirdos because you always choose the same type of man, based on the same criteria.. Try someone who isn't your type for a change you may be surprised .. Good luck

Answer 5

Stay away for meat markets (bars). Get involved with church activities or other social groups.

Answer 6

GOD GAVE ME MY MAN MAYB U NEED TO GO TO CHURCH OR TRY BLIND DATES THAT FRIENDS FIX UP WITH GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

simple BE SELECTIVE