i fooled around with a guy who i absoultley hate.. i let him finger me and thats about it (NO SEXUAL CONTACT AT ALL) like we were fully clothed. i dont know if he had sperm on his hands. i feel like i would have signifigantly noticed but i didnt notice anything at all. would i have defenitley seen/felt the c.um from him
this all took place aug 5th
2 weeks or so after that i got my normal heavy period for 6 days (aug 16th)
basically stopped worrying because i felt NO symptoms at all.. like no sore boobs, morning sickness, headaches, dizziness.. nothing at all and to this day (september 18th, still no signs what so ever)
my period was due the 16th of sept but still hasnt come yet. i usually get my periods late (ranges from 2-5) but i am FREAKING out that i could be pregnant. but i dont get it! i had my heavy period enough to fill up like 7 pads last month. i dont know what to do im freaking out and crying! im waiting till about friday if i dont get it to actually do something.
2006-09-18 12:01:23 · 19 answers · asked by alexa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am a virgin
2006-09-18 12:03:15 · update #1
(7-9 pads per day like normal)
2006-09-18 12:05:56 · update #2
If you haven't had sex since your last period then you not pregnant! All of the stressing you are doing is probably making you late. It happens to me all the time when I get all stressed out around the time my period is due.
Relax and take it easy. You are fine.
2006-09-18 12:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by annika_grace 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just relax.. I'm sure you don't have anything to worry about.. Maybe your late because you are so worried.. Stress causes those things. Don't do anything you will regret. Messin around with a guy you hate is not a good idea.. What if something would have happened and you did get pregnant where would you be then. You'll have a baby with a guy you hate.. Think before you act
2006-09-18 12:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by ladym963 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly...I dont believe that you are pregnant. Now, it could happen in an outlandish kind of way, but you are only 2 days late and you know your body. Obviously you have no reason to believe that you are pregnant. Just be more careful and fingering is sexual contact too...contrary to your belief. If you are a virgin, try not to place yourself in positions that will cause an uproar like this in your life. Be careful babes...be careful.
2006-09-18 12:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by BlackandBeautiful2007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very likely that you are not pregante, sperm dies very easily and if he did what you say it was likely already dead. In normal pregnacy's there is some time a small amount of blood, not enought to fill 1 pad. Your period is probley late because you are stressing out! Do yourself a big favor and keep away from that creep!!! You deserve a man who will treat you with respect!
2006-09-18 12:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by pharfly1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are NOT pregnant. Do not worry. It is just a little late, but you had your period, your contact was through clothes, and why/how would he put sperm on his finger to get you pregnant? It would be pointless, and nearly impossible. You would have noticed him leaving the room, coming back holding his hand funny, and instantly going to touch you!
You are just scared, but dont worry. And hon, if you are this scared after being touched, DO NOT have sex yet. You are not ready!
2006-09-18 12:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Pregnancy is not what you should be worried about. If for some reason he had fluids on his hands, he could have given you some type of STD, that is messing with your system. Chlamidia and several others can destroy your reproductive organs. You should get checked by a dr, then you will know for sure the answers to your questions.
2006-09-18 12:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by Teara C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go buy one of those over the counter tests. I hope you can purchase them even if you're not 18 ( I don't know).
At least you won't be worrying for nothing if it's negative. Good Luck!
Also, contact Planned Parenthood and ask advice on what to do regarding your habits. They are well trained and informed and there to help you prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
Don't be afraid to ask them questions. You could do this via internet even. Use this service. It's to help women prevent unwanted pregnancies first and foremost.
2006-09-18 12:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by tarro 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's no way you're pregnant if you're still a virgin.
You're fine - you're period's just a little late.
Calm down. You'll be fine.
Best of luck.
2006-09-18 12:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like PMS. I give you about a day...a word of advice: stay away from guys you hate and you won't be so stressed!
2006-09-18 12:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're not pregnant! Stop worrying!
2006-09-18 12:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋