should i be a stripper?

Question

Okay so like theres this guy in my pre-algebra class and he keeps tellin all the other boys i dance for him just because he heard i wanted to be a stripper and the guys at school throw money at me askin for lap dances sex and a little peek should i be a stripper?i'm a lightskinned african beauty big **** big butt third of the back length hair no tracks and guys call me bootylicious.

Answer 1

If you not smart enough to do anythying else or looking for attention

Answer 2

It sounds as though you are destine to be a stripper, because of the attention your getting. What the hell, you may already be a wh#re, so what difference is it gonna make if you show everybody what you got, they gonna get it anyway.

Also, I don't think they call you bootylicious, actually, they are really calling you something else and taking bets on which one of them will get into you first. Then after that, you'll be that door knob everyone is always talking about, because everyone will get there turn.

best thing for you, is to get your mind off your body and put it in a book. Try and make something of yourself, they can see that you think very low of yourself, just by the way you carry yourself. Try and be a positive Black woman or are there any in your family, who knows you could be the first.

You may have a nice body, but all that is temporary, your young, and it wont be long, before some other young girl come along, looking better than you and you wont even be able to remember the number of men you've been with much less who your kids fathers are, that bad.

yeah, go ahead strip, not only is it in your eyes, its in your blood ----- trick

Answer 3

First, are you over 18? If so, nobody should judge you for how you make a living, as long as you aren't hurting anyone (including yourself!). You sound like a beautiful girl and I'm sure many men would pay to see you dance...BUT...do you REALLY believe that your looks are the "best" quality you possess as a person?

Most strippers/exotic dancers ARE beautiful, sexy women OBVIOUSLY...however, many have been in relationships (with parents, family, boyfriends, lovers, etc...) where they have been degraded to the point of just being seen as a sex object. And once a person is made to feel this way for so long, they begin to believe that being a "sex object" is their best quality to offer the world, when in reality, many are intelligent, loving, driven, and caring and could excel at any variety of careers.

Do you think you will be able to wake up each morning and look at yourself in the mirror and be proud of your life? Do you think you could handle drunk men (most of them NOT cute!!!) trying to grab at you, looking at you like a piece of meat, calling you derrogatory names? Do you think you would be able to resist the temptations of drugs, sex, and easy money that so many young dancers fall prey to?

The life of a stripper is NOT glamorous and the cash you make runs out more quickly the deeper you get into the lifestyle. It doesn't matter what other people think of you or what their morals/religious beliefs dictate...you must be sure that YOU can live with yourself and the choices YOU make.

Good luck and remember to trust your heart! If something does not feel right, it's probably because it's NOT right (for you)!!!

Answer 4

I'm a stripper. And I would tell you probably not to become one. Why?

First of all, I would guess that you're somewhat young. If you want to become a stripper because it will help you financially and you have no other career goals or aspirations, then its not a bad idea, although its not the best idea. I would probably tell most girls not to become strippers, especially ones that are young. Most of the time, if their head isn't on straight, they end up hanging out with the other dancers, and getting involved in that whole lifestyle. Granted, the money is good, but what I see most of the time with alot of girls who I work with is that they blow all of their money, either on drugs or clothes or going out, and work again in order to do it all over again. The irony is that alot of them are broke. Its a vicious cycle. If you're somewhat mature, and you can be disciplined with spending AND work on an alternate career path at the same time, then go for it, otherwise don't. Alot of times people get stuck in this job until its too late, without having worked out a certain career path in advance.

Another note. Don't rely on what other people (namely guys) say about you to boost your self esteem. Strippers put too much importance into what other people say. This is good when everyone loves you but you'll always get that one guy who doesn't like your type and he'll end up ruining your entire day or week. I should know. Its happened to me and will continue to happen to me. Although its flattering, some girls start to become dependent on other men showering them with compliments. And your body, like your booty, will NOT last forever, but your inside beauty will. You should know how beautiful you are, from the inside, not by what people say but what you truly believe to be.

Moral of this story is: don't get into stripping unless you think of everything I said. And then some. And if you do become a stripper, then unless you have a strong determination not to have sex with customers, people will throw lots of money at you to be with you for one night. You have to ask yourself if its worth it. Your body is your temple, please treat it accordingly and don't knock what your momma took 9 months to make.

Answer 5

Sure you should be a stripper.

But are you doing this just so you can get the attention and no respect from the guys, they are throwing money at you like if you were a hore. Go ahead if you think that you don't have anything else to offer but your big booty, then quit school and get easy money.

And be know as the stripper that is only good for one thing, and that is bending over.

Answer 6

OMG NO you need to tell these hormonal lil boys that you are a respectful girl (which I hope you are) and that you want to go to college and make something out of your life, not having dirty old men grabbing up on you. Maybe try to get into modeling for local places around where you live its more respectful and shows off your beauty in a good way. DO NOT STRIP cause of some idiots that say you should

Answer 7

dear bootilicious.let me try to help you out. would advice you to stay in school and use your brains not your looks.at this moment in time you may not have the information you need to make an infomed decision .stipping is not as glamorous as you may think.it is a lot of hard work and very demeaning.it leads to prostitution and drug use.you are not going to be young forever.as you get older you will start to run away from yourself.people are not forgiven.they will cease every opportunity to remind you of your past.

Answer 8

You are still in school. Finish school. You are getting a little ahead of yourself. I most certainly would not pride myself at the fact that these boys are acting this way toward you. Give yourself better standards and pride yourself with something that really makes a good impression on people who are not thinking with the head that is located between their legs.

Answer 9

if you are over 18 make a webpage and call it - i want to be a stripper - and if you are going to be a stripper someone will off you a job - what does no tracks mean? tracks as in injection holes? is that what ghetto people boast about these days?

Answer 10

well sure if u want to be known as a postitute and a cheap hooker and a basic ho go right ahead i am sure no one will respect u and oh u could get fake boobs too..i mean then when the money is comin in and someone offers to pay u for sex what u make in a few hrs n u say "oh ill only do it this once" yet u dont..then see how nasty n low ur life becomes oh n dont forget the drugs n alchol u will start usin to cover the fact that u have to put ur junk in some nasty mans face for ur money good luck

Answer 11

I would think the boys are throwing money at you,,,not because you look good but because you are seeming slutty to them. They are mocking you. No you shouldnt be a stripper unless you want to sell your body,,because basically thats what you will be doing. Just a piece of trashy meat to the men.Dont you have any self worth???