my boyfriend is currently in jail and i was told that there was a way that you can get married....i do know it takes place at the court house, and its done on the same day as your sentencing day. i need to know is who would i go to first to start process and or if anyone new the web address for: friends on the outside/la county (home Page)
2006-09-18 11:49:26 · 15 answers · asked by Brite_Eyez*SGV* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hahahahahha you are dating a loser! oh hold on you want to marry him too r u nuts? plus hes probably already married to big bubba who he met in the showers
2006-09-18 11:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by mr_soapytitwank 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, every county is different. You could contact your partner's defense attorney and determine the best course of action or contact a civil attorney in your area.
These are very tricky arrangements are often do NOT include any sort of private visits. In some states are also become, by marraige, financially responsible for your partner's liabilities (debts, fines, etc) once you are married. You may want to check that out as well.
Lastly, please take some time to reflect on the long-term consequences to binding your self contractually to a partner who will be incarcerated for a while. Make sure your relationship can handle that kind of strain. Good luck!
2006-09-18 11:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lost M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you want information about how to do what you think you want....but....wait.... think about this some more. He will probably get f------ in jail, literally and then be messed up once he gets out. He will get meaner, hard not to when you are abused. He will have a very difficult time getting a job and supporting himself, never mind you. What is your hurry????? I would have him prove himself a nice guy (how nice can he be if he is in jail- at the very least he was somewhere, doing something he shouldn't have been), and out of jail, and his life straight for at least a year before I signed a possible death warrant on the beginning of the rest of my life. Think again and again, girl.
2006-09-18 11:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Oak18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back and take a look at your life:
You.
Are.
About.
To.
Marry.
A.
Man.
Going.
To.
Jail.
Let that sink in. Yes, I know you love him, et cetera et cetera ad nauseum. Get out and start fresh, don't condemn yourself to a life like this.
In six months I just don't want to see a "how do u divorce an inmate" question is all...
2006-09-18 11:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by CrispyEd 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You got nothing better to do than marry a CONVICT??? You can't be that dumb. He's currently in jail, with a real good prospect of remaining there. Real promising life for you...isn't it? Think about it.
2006-09-18 11:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you marry this guy say hes lock up for years
and some how you become pregnant
and your kid ask what daddy do for a living
oh he works for the state he makes license plates
great roll model
just cant see it
2006-09-18 12:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call your local courthouse. They often have proxy weddings. Ask them what you need to do.
2006-09-18 11:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give me a break.......do not marry a man in jail........should we just tatoo idiot on your forehead? Now really, if this is a fluke and hes "really" a great guy then wait until hes proved that, served his sentence and is in good standing with the criminal justice system.
2006-09-18 11:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask the court house or even ask the jail. Not the fairy tale wedding huh? But do what you gotta do.......Good luck girl!
2006-09-18 12:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better change your address if possible move where he can't find you, Your just asking for a life of hell
2006-09-18 11:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋