myself and my husband dont share the same room...or bed or life for that matter
2006-09-18 11:18:02 · 7 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we do nothing together we have kids and i guess thats why we are still here the love went a long time ago
2006-09-18 11:30:16 · update #1
get a lawyer and start over before it's to late.
2006-09-18 11:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rude dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a marriage do u have exactly? Yes, it's normal to want attention from your spouse but not to a point where he is at your beck and call 24/7. In your case, u are more like roommates than married couple and u either need to start communicating your feelings with him or go to counseling together because there's a definite lack of intimacy in your relationship.
2006-09-18 18:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is wrong, because I am in the same boat as you are. My wife and I do not share the same bedroom together, and we have differences as well. She loves politics, I do not like talking about politics, she likes a spotless house, and I like a comfortable clean home that I can bring friends to. No one likes coming to my house because they tell me they are not comfortable.
I do not why I am still there myself, but have you heard the saying;
It is cheaper to be with them than apart. I guess that's me.
I am not going to say it is right, but life goes on.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-18 21:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as you're married, it would depend on who's presence you're craving. We all crave for a sense of belonging, togetherness and mutual understanding/ affection sometimes, particularly when we are going through difficult times in our lives.
2006-09-19 09:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why not? Time to get some things changed. He may feel the same way. Talk about it. It actually is not normal to be so separated when you are married. Gosh, good luck!
2006-09-18 18:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by kitty K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't married anymore. Instead of just acting like it you should follow through and make it official. Get a divorce.
2006-09-18 19:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i just split up well she left me one of the reasons she left was i was smothering her she didnt understand that i needed her affection and attention.so no i dont thing its wrong to crave his presence but my wife might lol
2006-09-18 18:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by eddie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋