im a tomboy. im in 6th grade and all my freinds r boys ok.today brfore the bell rang my best freind Josh asked me if i where a bra i didnt know what to say because if i said ya (witch i do) he might not like me anymore if i say no he might tell people i dont and im in 6th grade and it would be weird.how do i tell my freinds i do where a bra and i had my period and stuff like that if they ask me?
2006-09-18 11:13:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If they ask, just tell them. It's nothing to be ashamed about. It shouldn't make them stop liking you. If they do stop, their jus being childish.
2006-09-18 11:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe a 12-year old ... even a "tomboy" ... has no girlfriends, but mores the pity. Why should your wearing, or not wearing a bra, have anything to do with friendship? Why would he tell people you don't, or do? What does your wearing (or not wearing) a bra have to do with HIM? Since you say you only have boy friends, such personal information should not be discussed with them. I wouldn't dream of telling a boy (ANY boy!)
I had started my period ... but then as my grandkids say: "that was in the 'dark ages', Grandma!" I, of course, disagree. I believe it's none of anyone else's business and personal information should remain just that .... PRIVATE and personal.
Can't you talk with your Mom or other person you trust about it? Do you have an older sister you can confide in? If so, talk with them and weigh their answers, then make your own decisions. Good luck!
2006-09-18 18:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by widow58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say ya. Who cares. I don't thnik it should matter whether you wear a bra. You certainly don't have to tell them about periods. I hope I helped.
2006-09-18 18:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Halloween freak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well id juss tell them , ur a girl ,,all girls wear a bra , start their period,and everything else that being a girl connects with...if the dont like u ne more {wich i dont c y they wouldnt } thenthey werent exactly a very good friend
2006-09-18 18:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by status_sweet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say don't ask such a personal question, how rude!
you aren't obligated to inform everyone if you are wearing a bra or if you have your period.....
2006-09-18 18:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them anything- it's rude of them to even ask, especially if the asker's a guy!! 'Sides, it's not really their business.
"Does it matter?"
"What do you think?"
Laugh and walk away or throw a ball at them.
"That's for me to know and you to wonder about."
"I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you!" (throw a ball at them)
2006-09-18 18:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you if you wear a bra you ask him if he wears boxers or shorts?come up with rebuttals like that
2006-09-18 18:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This 6th grade.
Not too good on teaching spelling, eh?
2006-09-18 18:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You simply say none of your business.
2006-09-18 18:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wtf? everyone wears a bra in 6th grade. Wow....
2006-09-18 18:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by *~Rock&Roll~* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋