I am married to a wonderfull man i have kids that i love,i have big house want for nothing have a good career have nice car, i know i sound like a selfish c o w but just want some excitement and fun what should i do??
2006-09-18 11:11:29 · 13 answers · asked by hazilbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lalo sounds like my kind of thing, but it me that needs some fun not him....
2006-09-18 11:21:52 · update #1
im5articu ..mmmm got me thinking, but dont fancy paying for it c h r i s t i am scottish..
2006-09-18 11:27:05 · update #2
You are thinking about having an affair aren't you?
Pay for an escort instead, it's much safer, you will be calling the shots and you can finish it whenever you want, once you have got it out of your system.
Good Luck.
2006-09-18 11:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to spice things up a bit. That's if you truly want to be with this man. You really need to sit back and think about the direction that your life is going. Sounds hard but can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this guy? If so then you need to start prioritizing things. For example how much time do you two spend together "ALONE?" Do things that you did in the beginning of your relationship. I have a quote that I always keep in mind, "What you did to get him, you have to do to keep him." If you where sexy before then you still have to be sexy. The same goes for him. Always try new things and take time for just the two of you. I understand where you are coming from because I went through the same situation myself and I know it can work. My husband and I seperated for a while because I was a workaholic, but we got back together and are even happier. I got my priorities straight and decided to live life to the fullest, because you've only have one life to live.
2006-09-18 11:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. No matter how many people you are round some time you do feel empty. This comes with age and working life too.Consider that you are very lucky to have a good family life. You can have fun in a way that your family life doesn't get disturbed. Please don't do stupid things like having affairs that you might regret later. Make a point that you go out and enjoy yourself with friends that your family knows well.
2006-09-18 11:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by shiningstar2808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peraps talking to the family about what they would all like to do together may be a start. Talk to each other on an emotional level. Do you really need a good career. Do you have any hobbies. What sort of things do your friends and collegues do for fun.
2006-09-18 11:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you settled for the best guy and not the right one.
Bored of the safe living and no loving,got too mundane in life due to everything being so good.
Got everything,but missing the most important ingredient in life.
My advice:- Help them a lot less fortunate than you and learn the missing ingredient,it is within you.
2006-09-18 11:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and find the fun - take hubby with you and just act like u did when you were 17. I don't have much in the way of material things, but i absolutely love my life because me and hubby go out and have fun and find that other fun loving people enjoy being around us too, so we have made many friends on our silly nights out.
2006-09-18 11:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by marliboco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have just got stuck in the rut of day to day life, have you spent some quality time away with just ur hubby at some romantic retreat?
2006-09-18 11:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by LorettaB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you have everything you want, you have no ambitions to achive, you've been there, seen it, done it, why not try something different, like some sort of charity work. You may get satisfaction from doing something for nothing for others.
2006-09-18 11:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dave B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a little want in your life. because you want for nothing, it gives you a feeling of loneliness. you need to want more out of life, some times existing is dull, you need to live more....
2006-09-18 11:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find an interest away from family life where you can maybe meet some new friends
2006-09-18 11:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by steveo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋