Do you know why I am having ED difficulties?

Question

I am a man in my early 20's. I am relatively inexperienced sexually because all of my previous partners have been one time experiences. Those experiences were never very good but I had always put the excuse off on the fact that it was just bad sex. However, recently I established a consistent sexual relationship.

During foreplay I have no difficulties maintaining an erection, but after about 10 minutes of sex I will lose the erection. This is without having orgasmed. In fact I have never orgasmed by the work of another person. However, I have masturbated to orgasm with another person. I am positive that it is not a mental issue that I am facing. I feel great about the person and I have never had any issues with confidence up until this point.

I am a relatively healthy person and in pretty good shape. My fear is that this issue stems from excessive masturbation and that I cannot replicate the quality of the feeling during regular sex.

Please, I need to get to the root

Answer 1

it sounds like you have a tough problem on our plate. if you're certain that subconsciously you do not prefer masturbation over vaginal sex, i suggest you go to visit your family doctor or a urologist. many factors can contribute to loss of an erection and the inability to orgasm inside a woman. Diabetes, high blood pressure, and depression are jsut a few. i aslo think you're dealing with performance anxiety. by this i mean, you're worrying that you'll lose the erection and won't be able to finish the act. this happens to many men who suffer with the various forms of ED.
there are drugs (viagra, cialis, and levitra) that aid in the maintenance of an erection, plus, devices such as a penis pump which creates a FIRM, STRONG erection that you will not lose until you climax or take off the rubber ring attached to the base of your penis. also, penis suppositories and penis injections are available to assist in providing a stronger, longer lasting hard-on.
should you go to see a urologist, make sure he tests your testosterone levels. too low can cause ED related problems.
if your level is low, the doctor will undoubtedly prescribe a gel
(ANDROGEL) to spread on your abdoman daily. it serves to raise your testosterone level.
most of all, don't fret and agonize over this problem. prior to sex, try a warm bath. engage in plenty of foreplay, including kissing,
touching. fondling, and explring each others bodies. don't be afraid to ask your partner to s--k your penis and respond by eating p---y, if she feels comfortable with that. bottom line, don't hop into bed, start the action, end of story. be playful, experimental, and enjoy every touch and feeling. foreplay should/could last for up to 20-30 minutes before initiating the intercourse phase of your sexual experience.
finally, i think you're being too hard on yourself. every man experiences a bout with ED at some time in his life. for some men iit is more often and more chronic. relax, have fun, and go with the moment.
best of luck, friend!

Answer 2

From your problems, I am guessing that you are circumcised, and you are not getting enough sensation when having vaginal sex. This is especially bad when she lubricates heavily you will get no friction at all, and sex with a condom, you may as well be shaking hands. If this is the case check out www.senslip.com, that is a protective penal sheath that is worn under the clothing to allow the glans (tip of the penis) to recover some of the sensitivity it has lost from circumcision.

I know from personal experience how frustrating this can be, sometimes my erection failed and other times after an hour of pounding my wife would ask me to stop.

If you ever have a son, please do not circumcise him.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

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Answer 5

I gave u a star with no problems

Answer 6

yOU JERKED OFF TO MUCH AND HAVE NOT HAD ENOUGH PUNANNY. Your penis is used to the sensation you gave it by wackin off so it does not get the same stimulation from the velvet tunnel. Just stop spanking the monkey for a while and let little willie get used to the real deal. It will be better eventually..

Answer 7

Try viagra it will put some lead in your pencil. You will finish the act and get the confidense to go without it. By the way you will have the stamina of 3 men after taking it.

Answer 8

You should see a urologist. he or she will check out for any physical cause and advise on how to go on from there.
It is unlikely that your previous masturbation history has anything to do with it.

Answer 9

if u love the person u will not get this