2006-09-18 10:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by blkboi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't help you...only she knows the reason she left. Have you talked to her and asked her why?
2006-09-18 10:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deployments are really, really hard. Either you have a supermarriage, or... you don't have a marriage at all. There really isn't any room in between.
There could be a lot of reasons. She could have been experiencing depression. She could have met someone else and been afraid to tell you. Talk to her and ask her why, and if she won't tell you, you're just going to have to find a way to deal with it on your own.
2006-09-18 17:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by smurfette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just can't handle the two of you being apart all the time, or maybe she met someone else while you were away, either way it sucks but truley she is the only one with the answers you need.
2006-09-18 17:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you in the military when you got married? Some women can't deal with that lifestyle.
2006-09-18 17:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I share your pain ...being former military myself. It was like an everyday occurence in the barracks that somebody got a "Dear John" letter, and we all gathered around them to give them strngth. It is tough! My heart goes out to you, my friend!!
2006-09-18 17:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be hard to talk to her about this, but i think u really need to talk to her urself! i mean u have to be ready for some of the answers she might give u thou, so before u really want to sit down and talk to her make sure that u are ready to sit and hear what her answers might be! you may never truthfully be prepared to hear what it is that she might say, but u have to be prepared to here the worst of the best... good luck :) and sorry to hear about this...
2006-09-18 17:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by ME :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to give up on her and be with someone who will appreciate you and love you for who you are no matter what. she must not be the one because thru thick and thin til death do us part is forever
2006-09-18 17:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by icandi22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better off without her.
Find someone else to make you happy.
2006-09-18 17:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She met someone and doesn't have the courage to say so.
2006-09-18 17:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys live and die for this country and thats the way your treated?? she should be at guantonamo. i feel for you dude and much respect
2006-09-18 17:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by patrick b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋