I have this friend and he tells me everything and he is my best guy friend even thow i have alot of guy friends well any way i kinda like him and well my best gal friend decides to go out with him but i kinda like him and he tells me everything not her and i dont think she is good for him but i dont want to tell either of them stright up what should i do Please help Quickley???????????
2006-09-18 10:22:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
.If you are really good friends and your guy friend tells you everything I think you should tell him how you feel about his relationship with her and let him know that you like him but if you two go out let him know if it doesn't't work out between you two that you still want to be friends with him because you don't want to lose him over a boyfriend, gurlfriend relationship. If he can tell you everything I think you should tell him everything. if you are truly friends?
2006-09-18 10:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it is definite that you have feelings for me before you do anything. Maybe the idea of them being together makes you jealous. Don't confuse jealousy for romantic feelings.
If you like him and it is for all the right reasons, tell him. If this is a true thing, that doesn't happen everyday. Go for it. Just be prepared for what could happen. If you guys do date and it goes badly, you could lose his friendship. If you guys go out, your girl friend who likes him could get angry and not be your friend anymore.
Look at all the possibilities. Good luck. I have been there myself. I have more guy friends than girls.
2006-09-18 10:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by kellbell_62084 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date a boy your best friend dates but come out and tell them both how you feel. Remember dating an ex of your best friend is a double no.
2006-09-18 10:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
diverse persons are fearful of dropping a chum by way of this reason. that is comprehensible. think of of what you could earnings in case you grow to be extra then friends. don't be fearful of dropping a chum by way of fact a real buddy would nonetheless be there inspite of how you felt interior. life is short, stay it to the max without regrets. Oh and no maximum individuals can no longer see the indicators of someone liking them even nevertheless they are in a position to verify it for individuals.
2016-10-01 03:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them both to be talking more to each other, its nice to have a friends shoulder to lean on but in reality, its hard to come between 2 friends, tell your guy friend he needs to express his feelings more to his gf and work it out between them, tell him that you do not want to lose both of your friendships, and that you will always be there for him as a friend when you can. Good luck on that one!
2006-09-18 10:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay out of it unless she is doing something specific to hurt him. Wait and see how it pans out. If your meant to be your meant to be.... Everything happens for a reason. He may just trust you as a friend, but if this girl is a real friend you need to respect the fact that he is with her. If she isnt then speak to him .
2006-09-18 10:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by lucylu x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not tell him anything. You two are friends, but your reason for telling him would be for your own best interest, not his.
Let him find out about her himself. After he discovers who she really is, that's when you tell him that you like him for more than a friend.
2006-09-18 10:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it depends how much you value your friendship with both of them. have you ever seen my best friends wedding? ask yourself why you feel your gal friend is bad for him what are the reasons? not jealousy,ask your guy friend how he feels about her? i would really make sure to think about everything before letting your emotions control you.
2006-09-18 12:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by bibi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably wont last. Maybe you could wait it out, then take a chance. It might be a bad time to tell him. Are you and the girl close?
2006-09-18 10:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship usually lasts longer then relationships, so stay his friends and then maybe you two can take a shot at romance, and it can last because you were Friends first.
2006-09-18 10:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋