First of all I am 21 (just to give some background) My boyfriend and I have been doing things lately and have both gotten REALLY curious. I have thought about asking him if I can see it and do a h*nd j*b because I am way curious but....a) I am a little afraid to see it b) I am afraid of what will happen when it shoots and c) I have never seen one before d) I don't even know if I will enjoy watching it. I would like to know from other girls who have already been there done that to see if I am wrong in worrying.
2006-09-18 09:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anna J2 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You have nothing to fear or be nervous about.
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2006-09-18 17:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i am impressed (and a little surprised!) you made it to 21 without even seeing one...
Anyway, that aside you would always talk to him about it, tell him you are nervous etc. they arent the prettiest things on earth, just to warn you!! A thought - if you are unsire about your reaction when you see him for the first time check out some images on the net (doesnt even have to be porn, many medical sites would give you a pic, i'm sure).
Good luck. x
2006-09-18 17:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by smileyscribe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't do something that you're not really so sure that you want. Though curiousity can lead you there anyway. Worrying for the first time is really normal. But I hope no force or pressure will apply.
2006-09-18 18:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by camcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong in worrying. New things will make you nervous and scared. You will never know what it's like though untill you give it a try.
2006-09-18 17:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The FIRST TIME i ever saw or touched one I hated it.....actually I was never fond of looking or touching them at all until i met my husband.
Everyone is differant, and some girls LOVE looking at them, some girls dont. And some girls just ned the right man to show them what a joy they can be, (like me)
2006-09-18 17:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by alissae02690 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's nervous their first time... But make sure its really something you want to do, that he's not pressuring you into. At first I hated doing things like hand pleasure, but I am very comfortable with doing it. Practice make perfect.
2006-09-18 16:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Little_Lilth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you have to worry about is getting pregnant. If you are not ready to be pregnant, don't have sex. Protection can fail, so be prepared. (Both my sisters got pregnant while on birth control) Other than that, as long as you this is what you want, not just what your boyfriend wants, then have fun!
2006-09-18 17:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋