I was recently contact by an old female friend. She sent me a text message and a few days later an email. All the txt and email said was "I have to tell you something." I replied back to both but I did not get an response. A week later I got the same text message, I replied back and still did not get a response. Last night, a little over a week from the orginal text, I got a response. This female stated that she was pregnant and I was the baby's father. I did have sexual relations with this females over 6 months ago and have not spoken or seen her since. She also stated that she is 25 weeks and could not get an abortion. Where I am confused as to why it took her so long to contact me? Why tell someone this over a text message, was this not important enough for phone call? My real issue is what should I do? If I am really the father of this child, which I had no intentions of because I do not even know this girl only by a phone number. Should I believe her? I fear I may the father.
2006-09-18 09:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by Half Man/Half Amazing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
only a paternity test can tell! don't believe her until you get one!
2006-09-18 09:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is any posibility you are the father than be there for her but as soon as the baby comes, take a DNA test for positive results. It is to late to abort and maybe that is why she waited so long. Now there is no option but to have the baby.
2006-09-18 16:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what condoms were invented to prevent. Now they have this test to verify paternity. it's called a dna test. if you are the daddy you will be paying for the next 18 years.
guess what. the law says you have no say in whether she brings the baby into the world or not. so ready or not, you are going to be paying for that one night stand for the next 18 years.
and they say prostitution isn't legal. ha. here it is in black and white. (no pun intended if this is an interracial relationship)
2006-09-18 16:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she was really shure at that time that u are the father,then she might got scared to tell u,or do u think its easy to tell somebody u barely know that u r pregnant... but well only a test can prove if u are the father.but sometimes just a look of the baby can already tell...
2006-09-18 16:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. Child support for the next 18 to 23 years. You should be so proud.
2006-09-18 16:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a request for financial support will soon be forthcoming. Get a DNA test if there IS a child. Give her nothing until it has been proved that the kid is yours.
2006-09-18 16:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea i think she should have called you and told you over the phone but then again at least she told. now far as believing her i dont know call her and the both of ya'll go to the doctors office and see if she is telling you the truth
2006-09-18 16:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by content 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did you use a condom horny guy? well screw her, i would ignore her, if you are really the father, then she will send you to the Maury Show to get the DNA results, if not, then let her pay, it's partially her fault for jumping on different poles.
2006-09-18 16:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by DOINK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PATERNITY TEST
2006-09-18 16:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋