so everytime my bf asks me to go down on him i always do..but i eventually stopped bcuz one day i asked him to go down on me, and he doesnt want to.i dont stink down there bcuz ive had oral before..is it wrong of me to say no to him jus bcuz he doesnt do it to me?
2006-09-18 09:27:17 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i think you ned to speak to him and find out why he doesnt like oral - maybe it is not you, maybe he just doesnt like giving it. Or maybe he isnt sure if you will like or he will do it right so he doesnt want to embarrass himself by trying. maybe he has had a bad experience?
There may be a hundred reasons but you will never know till you ask. Then you can decide whether you should continue to give him oral. :-) let him know that you feel it is a little unfair.
See how it goes. x x
2006-09-18 09:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by smileyscribe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the male does NOT give you oral pleasure, then he deffinatly does NOT deserve you to do it to him.
Relationships are a give-give thing; sharing goes BOTH ways, not just one way.
I would confront him with this. If he won't go down on you, then you shouldn't go down on him either. It's only fair, don't you think?
Cheers!
PS: If I were a girl, I wouldn't go out with a guy who doesn't give oral satisfaction. If I were you in this case, I would actually break up with him just on the PRINCIPLE of him not giving oral sex.
2006-09-18 09:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, first of all, some men are intimidated by "down there". Maybe he's never done it before or he had a bad experience. Secondly, I wouldn't refuse to go down on him despite the fact, but then I really enjoy pleasing my man. I think you need to talk to him about this.
2006-09-18 09:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered complying with his wishes by engaging in 69? You are doing what he's asked for, but showing him what you want from him at the same time... kind of hard to say no to that.. I mean... what's he gonna do? Push you off of him, and make you stop doing what he wanted you to do in the first place?
2006-09-18 09:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his problem? Are you blowing him like a palm tree in a Florida gale while he's thinking about MEN? Ditch the loser and find a real man who like the taste of a woman.
2006-09-18 09:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 10:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right. If he won't, then you don't need to just because he wants you to. 69 is a together kind of thing for a reason. Otherwise he is just using you. Plus, once he gets used to it, its good fun. And make sure he shaves (his face)!
2006-09-18 09:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by lil'oleJewler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you but I sure would want to experience the pleasures of oral sex performed on me once in awhile.
2006-09-18 09:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be comfortable with who you are with. If this is something you really enjoy and you think about it often and makes you feel bad about yourself, then forget him. Do you enjoy going down on him, if you do, explain him that and explain to him that it makes you feel like crap when he doesn't reciprocate.
2006-09-18 09:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by cassjoe83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
M S thats so selfish of you, she doesnt have to please him whenever he asks.
To answer the question, NO it isnt wrong of you to say no. You can say no whenever you want. If you are giving and arent getting, it's perfectly fair to say no when he asks you.
2006-09-18 09:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by shortee807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋