is it okay to use a sex toy with your husband?

Answer 1

There are plenty of ways to use a sex toy with your spouse, so your question is very VAGUE.

Lots of married couples like to incorporate toys into their sex lives. Make sure both you and your husband are comfortable and willing to use the toy. That is the most important factor.

Things to know when picknig out and using toys:

1. Hygiene is paramount. You can use an unlubed condom to cover your toys. Unsanitary toys can lead to infections, especially if they're being shared between two people.

2. Material matters. Silicone is best because it can be sanitized in boiling water. Rubber and plastic will melt under those conditions. But with a silicone toy, you cannot use silicone-based lube (the lube will dissolve the toy).

3. Not all toys are insertive. Don't insert things that are not designed for that purpose. Otherwise, it may result in an embarrassing ER visit.

Answer 2

I love Gumdrop Girl. She can talk about sex toys or chinese food with equal aplomb.

She's also right about the choice of sex toy material. Very important. The ones made from pressed sawdust are no fun at all.