My girlfriend thinks her guy is cheating. They have been married for 5 years. I think he is but I have no concrete proof. She has asked me for help? How can I help her prove or disapprove this? Or should I even? Do I leave my nose out of this? She is my best friend but the guy is my husbands friend. I am in a dilema.
2006-09-18 09:23:32 · 13 answers · asked by smr122179 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You stay out of it.
Let's assume your friend is not paranoid or crazy. OK, that being said, if she thinks he's cheating, then most likely, he's cheating. She really won't have to dig up proof. He will eventually give himself away. What she needs to do is decide what SHE is going to do with this cheating husband. Stay, address it with him and try to work it out. Or, call him out on it and be prepared to leave. She's got to stop thinking with her heart and use her head. Don't be impulsive. Think it through and make a conscious choice as to how to proceed.
2006-09-18 09:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by pearl101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband should stay out of it. Why would your friend stay married to someone who might be cheating on her?
I agree with Forlorn. It sounds like they don't have a good marriage to begin with, even if he isn't cheating.
2006-09-18 16:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend to hire a private investigator. This way you are not directly involved with the situation.
2006-09-18 16:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only way you could prove it is to follow him. might be best to stay out of it - she could always hire a private detective
2006-09-18 16:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much "drama" you are willing to put up with in your own life. Me, I don't have the time to waste or the inclination be bothered with other peoples love life. They don't listen any way. So what's the point?
2006-09-18 16:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are best staying out of it... if she doesn't trust him, then she should either ask for a divorce or get an open marriage so she can get some fun too...
2006-09-18 16:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Don't even get in that mix.
2006-09-18 16:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep away from such problems
2006-09-18 16:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by soofi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you stay out of it ... or you will lose a friend ... tell her to seek professional help,
2006-09-18 16:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say call that tv show cheeters and let them do the snooping for ya!
2006-09-18 16:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋