can someone tell me how it feels?

Question

how does it feel to get it up tha ***? my bf and me have been going out for almost two years,and we've had sex already,but he asks from time to time if we can do that (up tha ***) and i wana kno wat it feels like too, but im scared...can someone tell me how it feels?

Answer 1

Hurts. Just imagine a baseball bat up there. A guy wants it because it is so tight and it feels great to him. Tell your boyfriend that you want to shove the baseball bat up his b-u-t-t first and see if he likes it. Don't let anyone force you to do anything that hurts you or you find offensive.

Answer 2

Hi. It feels like intercourse, only there is a more intense sensation since your muscles back there are tighter. You must use a lot of lube. Go slow. Relax. And make sure if it isn't right for you that you all stop. A lot may depend on his size. If he is really big, you may want to think again. Also, get some books that will help you. There are Joy Of Sex kind of books that will tell you a lot anout it. Be safe. Make your own choice. Learn before you do.

Answer 3

My husband has been trying to get me to do the same thing. So I let him and it feels really weird. To me it hurts at first, but only if you dont use lube, and after a while it feels okay. I am not saying it feels good or bad. It just feels weird and interesting. You can always try it one time and if you dont like it then dont do it anymore. That is all you can do I suppose.

Answer 4

First things first- If you aren't comfortable with the idea, tell him so. If he doesn't respect your wishes or boundaries, he is not worth dating.
Other than that, the things guys love about it is that it is much tighter "back there," but that doesn't mean it's your only option. Try kegals (vaginal exercise) to tighten up, and maybe that will suffice.
My husband's friend was talking it up one day and he wanted to try. We did, but neither of us enjoyed it. It's a personal thing, but yes, it hurts. Another thing to consider is that maybe he is bored... Try getting a book with new positions and see if one of those will make him happy without compromising your comfort. Good luck!

Answer 5

Well I happen to like it, every once in a big while, you have to be totally relaxed or it will hurt, lubricants are a good idea and he has to go gently and slowly or it will burn! Make sure you do not have to go to the bathroom(#2) or you will find yourself running to the toilet! I think the men get more pleasure out of it, but when I give my man pleasure it gives me pleasure also

Answer 6

It sucks. But only you can know exactly how it feels. If you want to try it - use a TON of lube.

Personally I thought it was a huge waste of time and effort. But you may come to different conclusions.

Answer 7

the first time you do it it hurts. it all depends on the person on how they are going to like it. if you do it often it doesnt hurt after the first couple times. if you are not ready to try it then you should just tell your bf that it isnt time for it.

Answer 8

I personally tried it once, and i never cried so hard in my life. I was young though and didn't try lubricant , and now i'm traumatized. However everyone else i know LOVES it. JUST REMEMBER THE LUBE and i'm sure you'll be fine.

Answer 9

Some people like it and some people say it hurts like hell. Try it once if you don't like it don't do it again. If you try it be sure to use lot of lubricant and go slow.

Answer 10

IT HURTS! The one time I actually tried it, I could sit or sh*t straight for a week! Tell him if he lets you put a d*ldo up his & still wants to put you through that pain, then you will do it!