Breastfeeding question?

Question

Im pregnant with my second child and I really want to breast feed this time, but with my first I couldnt because it really grossed me out. Has anyone else felt this way? Any suggestions to get over it?

Answer 1

I can understand your grossed out feeling to a point I had 7 kids and never breast fed...I had no desire too....even though I knew the benefits of it....many will call me a bad mom because of it....you might try talking to your Dr or a lactose nurse at the hospital u plan on delivering at.

Answer 2

I did attempt breastfeeding with my first child. I was not successful with it and my supply dried up in 10 weeks. I was not so much grossed out by it, but more did not want to be bothered (I found it to be very time consuming with each feeding over an hour). I am also pregnant again and will try it again and am going to try to pump this time so the baby still gets the milk and I wont have to give up all of my time feeding this baby. I have a 2 year old to take care of and just wont have the time to have another child physically attached to me all day long.

Answer 3

I'm sure you're not the first to feel this way, and if it really makes you uncomfortable then bottle feed. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about your choice. On the other hand, breast milk is best for the baby and it is free. If you can breastfeed even for a couple of weeks, its better than not breastfeeding at all. I had a hard time breastfeeding my first child only about 7 weeks but with my second I decided to give it another try and we breastfed for the first full year. My youngest child does seem to be healthier than my oldest, but I don't really know if it was because I breastfed longer or not. My advice to you is to give it a shot, it will really be good for the baby, but if it doesn't work out for you don't beat yourself up. There are plenty of great mom's who never even tried to breastfeed. Check with your doctor or hospital, they may have breastfeeding consultants who could also help.

Answer 4

Well, if you felt grossed out by the idea before, I'm guessing you need to work on normalizing the idea of breastfeeding in your brain and maybe de-sexualizing it?????

Spend some time around nursing mothers and learning about breastfeeding. Get to some La Leche League meetings while pregnant. You'll learn a lot and you'll build up a support system for after the birth. Being around other mothers who are nursing may help to make the idea seem more normal to you. Plus, if you already know your LLL Leader, you'll be more likely to feel comfortable calling her if you have questions or problems post-partum.

Read some good books on breastfeeding too.

Answer 5

At first, it is an uncomfortable feeling. But in due time it will subside. Think of it this way, you are providing the best and healthiest food in the world for your baby. Not even the most expensive formulas can equal to breast milk. Once you get the hang of it, it will not be gross to you. Breastfeeding is the best way to bond with your child.

I have three children myself and I will tell you that it was the best decision I ever made. They are extremely healthy and hardly get sick. The only thing was I could only breastfeed for three-four months because they ate too much! lol :) So in order for me to get the much needed rest to raise the other little ones, I had to switch to formula. Even then, ask your doctor, you can formula and breastfeed.

It's all up to you. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't. If you won't breastfeed, I suggest using Enfamil with Lipil- it's the closest product to breast milk. It's expensive, but you're baby is worth it.

Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for the choices you make. It's YOUR baby. :)

Answer 6

My girlfriend is currently breastfeeding her son, she felt this way.
And it lasted for about a week.

She got over, by thinking, that this is the best nutrients that she could give her baby, as all of nature (animal kingdom) does it.
And its the most important nutrients to a baby in their 1st few months into the world. Nothing else compare to it.

There's a great reason why our bodies create it, why she would we deny the baby, this by thinking it gross.

Its starts in the mind.

Her baby has such a beautiful and healthy glow, that people are always commenting and complimenting her on her baby's appearance, and spirit. He even hums while he's feeding.

Go ahead and embrace this special time with your newborn.

Congrats! Again!

Answer 7

HOPE THIS HELPS!!!


For baby and me
I know nursing is best
But I feel like my life
Is controlled by my breasts

I have no idea where my sex life has been
'Cause when I want to "do it"
My milk comes in

I have nursed my baby everywhere
From clothing stores to the dentist's chair

When I use my pump,
I feel like a cow
And when baby wants to nurse,
He wants to nurse NOW!

Just when I think it's time for a rest
Baby's back at it - wanting the breast

I'll admit there are times when I just want to scream
And I pray for the time when my baby is weaned
I'm engorged, I'm tired, my nipples are sore
During growth spurts I cry: "I can't take anymore!"

But then there are the times
When baby's at my breast
And nursing actually calms me
And gets rid of my stress

These are the times that we nursing moms treasure
When nurturing our babies brings us such pleasure

So when someone sees you nursing
And asks you "why?"

The following words should be in your reply:

For baby and me
I know nursing is best
And life's not so bad
When controlled by my breasts

Answer 8

Some women are just uncomfortable with it. If it makes you that way you and your baby will be frustrated because your baby will pick up on your feelings. You can always buy or rent a breastpump (Medilia) (SP) is a good one, it is the ones hospitals use. You can freeze breastmilk up to 6 months and keep in the fridge for about 24 hours after thawing out.

Answer 9

Educate yourself about breastfeeding. I thought breastfeeding was gross too until I had my first son and for me it was the most wonderful experience. But if you feel uncomfortable with it don't do it. You don't want to grow to resent your baby. Good Luck to you and remember, only you can make the right decisions for your baby.

Answer 10

I also breastfed my second child and will soon to the third. You need to make a distinction in your mind between feeding your child and nurturing your baby vs. sexuality. There is definetly a difference. Your baby is only be satisfied in the baby's tummy. That is all that they are thinking about.

Answer 11

it does feel weird at first, but it just takes some getting uesed to. I actually breastfed for 8 months mostly for the convience and i was at h0ome mom. but also it made daugther healthier , she never got sick until she turned 1. so try it may see how it goies but don;t give up 2 quick.