is it possible to give a woman an orgasm?

Question

i myself am not sure because i never ask them afterward

Answer 1

The best thing you can do is ask the woman what she likes. First of all, many if not a huge amount of women can't have orgasms from vaginal sex. Most can only get clitoral orgasms.

Remember this!! Extremely important! Most women CAN'T get orgasms without ORAL SEX!!! You must go down because not only does it get her aroused and wet, you are hitting most sensitive spot on a woman. The clitoris. The clitoris is the key to orgasm. Vaginal intercourse is of course important, but many women find oral sex to be the best pleasure wise.

Now some women can get orgasm from vaginal sex. Sometimes it is just because your body touches her clitoris, or some women actually get vaginal orgasms. There are to major types of orgasms, clitoris and vaginal. The clitoris is inside of the inner labia, the folds of skin.

I am lucky because mine is so big so any guy can see it. All girls are different, some more sensitive than others. Some like it soft, some harder. You can suck, lick, twirl you tongue around it... You should read some books.

Remember, you must preform oral sex on a girl!!! It pleases us more than anything else, accept penetration. It feels good to because we have a G-spot inside.

Answer 2

Well my dear, ya done good. What you felt was your g/f go through the series of stages to a blissful orgasm. You properly aroused her and she responded to the stimulation by having an orgasm. That gush that you felt isn't the same as with guys. Pretty much what happens is that the build up of tension. The actual orgasm is just a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscle contracts. At the point of excitement - the point where breathing is heavy, the skin is flushed, eyes are dilated, that sort of thing. -the muscles of the vagina relax and contract rapidly. (That grip feeling that happens quickly) That gush that you felt was the glands of the vagina letting out secretion (perfectly normal stuff) This is produced by the Bartholin's gland and it helps keep lubrication in the vagina so it doesn't hurt at all. If that gush was too much for you, she may have had a g-spot orgasm. All that is G Spot is the area on the upper wall of the vagina through which the urethral or Skenes glands is located. During the time of arousal, this area swells up and can be stimulated as well. You get the same result, a gush as you say but it takes time to hit the spot precisely. If you really want to know alot more go look up the link below. Dont forget to ask her too how it felt. The more the both of you explore and talk about it, the better they get for a woman. Trust me on this.

Answer 3

It's quite probable, I do it all the time. I don't have to ask either because anyone who pays attention can tell. Of course I am a woman, but I know from experience that men can do it too. I'd be willing to bet that not too many come back for a second try with you, the ones that do don't expect much from a lover. Why don't you just masturbate, I'm sure you know when you have an orgasm.

Answer 4

Sure it is. It's possible for women to have one orgasm after another. What you need to know is most women don't reach orgasm through straight sex. Best way for a man to bring a woman to orgasm is through lots of foreplay (kissing, touching, rubbing, etc.) followed by oral sex. Take your time -- women can tell if you're rushing and it really ruins the mood.

Answer 5

I believe you would know if a woman had an orgasm. "Them" indicates you just sleep around so perhaps the problem is you're not having a serious relationship and don't put your emotion into it. If you were in a meaningful relationship you would care enough to ask the woman what pleases her....BEFORE you have to guess whether it did or not.

Answer 6

Dan, the answer is an obvious YES. Every woman is different, and as such, every situation is different. Sure, women may fake orgasms to please you, and that's sad, and is the underlying aspect of your question.
Women experience pleasure on a level equal, and even more intense than men based on many things, but namely their physiology. Think of the term "multiple orgasms".
How many have you had?
I've had women tell me than can have 4 or 5, depending on the
experiance, and with someone else, none.
Trust me, when she comes.. you will know!!

(You may require first aid!!)

Good luck!!

Answer 7

Of course it's possible, you shouldn't have to ask. If you bring a woman to orgasm, you will have no doubts:)

Answer 8

of course it is. its nothing to do with sexual prowess, just know where and how woman's bodies work! also, women orgasm in the mind, not just in the body... it takes many forms and it takes a gentle and sometimes patient person to make it happen!

Answer 9

Yes, all humans have the capacity to orgasm. If you were a caring and considerate lover you would not have to ask them. You would have known they had one.

Answer 10

You will know when a women has an orgasm. Their body will tremble.