my best friend is gay and i gave him some bad news about his ex boyfriend. it wasnt anything big but now hes acting like a total b*tch and its getting on my last nerves. what should i do
2006-09-18 08:04:00 · 14 answers · asked by wat2do 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Was the bad news something you did to make it bad, or did it have nothing to do with you and you were being a friend by telling him what is going on. If he is being rude to you, give him space, friends are going have their big fights too, the best is give him time to think and than talk to him but dont be to concerned in his life. And if he needs advice than give it to him, but rather than that i wouldnt get too much involed. But still be there if he needs you, cant trun you back on a friend, like you wouldnt want him to trun his back on you. And when hes mad at you, just believe that its because hes hurt right now, so give him time.
2006-09-18 08:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some space. he deals with situation differently then what you are used to. its not wrong. but if if bothers you then you are the one that needs to make some space between you's. if you want to do something about it, then leave your nose out of other peoples biz. you want to go to him and tell him stuff that there is a possibility he will react like this........then dont do it. he's your friend........so you say........then dont' get your personal feelings involved on how he deals with it. be there for him. be his friend and show compassion. the problem isn't that he's gettin on your nerves....the problems is your not being the friend you claim to be. if you really want to help him, then talk to him. ask him why it upset. him, let him voice his anger and frustration, let him vent. do be critical and judgemental of this situation.
2006-09-18 08:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 22:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its old news and that u don't want to hear about it tell him to go find a new gay if hes so worried
2006-09-18 08:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by HoTtIe_WiTh_a_BoDy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he's gay. and stop acting like a *****
2006-09-18 08:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by jay d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His feelings are probably hurt. Just give him some space for awhile.
2006-09-18 08:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to build a bridge and get over it!!!Sheesh...
2006-09-18 08:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and your self tell him how you feel
2006-09-18 08:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by tim s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you beat the crap out of him
2006-09-18 08:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by YAY AREA_408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore ..teach you to stick your nose where it doesn't belong..
2006-09-18 08:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋