If they have no children together, no property, nothing that would require them to be an active part of his life....and the woman has expressed that she expected more. Basically he says they're just friends, he says they just talk about their respective children, relationships, old friends, etc., but she's said that she had expected them to be married within the next couple of years...once her life is back on track.
2006-09-18 07:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by Survivors Ready? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He needs to end the friendship with her just out of respect for you, especially with her feeling the way she does. She has basically said be with her until I get myself together then dump her and come home to me. I may be reading this all wrong, but just take caution.
2006-09-18 07:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No bad idea, I am going through the same thing. My ex and I have been broken up for a while but we can't seem to quit talking to eachother. I know that it is preventing me from moving on. So I finally made the decision that I have to move on with my life because there is nothing there anymore between us or in our future that would change things. Just move on it is the best thing for you. Why we always put ourselves through these torture games in our minds about our exes, I wish I knew. Go out enjoy being single.
2006-09-18 07:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That deepens on if the split up was Good or bad if it was a good split up then yes it is OK to be just friends but if the split up was bad then the guy should not have any thing do with her ever Agna
2006-09-18 07:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like she's his 'past love'. If her life 'wasnt on track' in the past couple of years...perhaps she wasnt pursuing him for a committed relationship either. They liked each other for whatever reasons but doesnt sound like a love match and both should go their separate ways.
2006-09-18 07:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM NOT SURE WHAT YOUR QUESTION IS, BUT WHATEVER THE CASE, A GUY SHOULD MOVE ON FROM A PAST LOVE. IF THEY SPLIT UP, THEN HE SHOULD MOVE ON. STAYING CONNECTED IS LIKE CARRYING BAGGAGE, AND BAGGAGE CONTAMINATES FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR MAN WAS STILL CONNECTED TO HIS EX? WHAT ABOUT LOYALTY TO YOUR CURRENT LOVED ONES?
2006-09-18 07:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever is good for the two of you. Talk to him and find out. It is what it is no matter what happens.
cheers
2006-09-18 08:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why waste your time?
Men and women don't naturally like each other - why would you want to hang around with her?
FP
2006-09-18 07:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, why not? I have remained friends with most of my exes and I am now friends with their spouses.
2006-09-18 07:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no he should drop her like a dirty wash cloth. he's just using you till he gets the one HE REALLY WANTS BACK.You should have seen this.I guess that he must make you getoff really good
2006-09-18 07:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by rolando h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has more intimate intentions and he is being naive...I would have to step in and express myself.
2006-09-18 07:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋