2006-09-18 07:45:12 · 21 answers · asked by goobie 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Give it up!!!!
2006-09-18 07:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by jb 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would tell you to give him oral sex and if he does not want that then you should tell him look if you love me then you wait until my six weeks are up and if he keeps on asking just go and sleep in another part of the house and turn on some music play a song that is going to make him feel guilty about the things he is doing good luck with the new baby
2006-09-18 14:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by monica h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will have sex when he decides you are worthy to marry. That should cool his jets a while.
NO ONE should bug anyone for sex for any reason.
Why why why, would you have a baby with a man who so oblivious to your needs? Didn't you just have HIS baby?
You are just encouraging his piss-poor behavior. If a man has to behave to get his genes in the gene-pool, then he will. If he can be a thoughtless ,selfish cad and still get to make babies, why should he behave any differently?
Get in charge of your own life, now, before you piss it away.
2006-09-18 14:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very selfish! Besides, aren't you still bleeding? Most women bleed at least six weeks after birth. It's not healthy to have sex before. Besides, aren't both of you really sleep deprived from having a newborn? The last thing on my mind, at that time, was sex!
2006-09-18 15:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get married. Give your baby a name. And usually you wait 6-8 weeks before having sex again.
2006-09-18 14:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl its only been 3weeks since the baby was born you need to tell him it may be monts before you get in the mood tell him to watch talk sex on the oxygen network and even call in its not healthy I don't think
2006-09-18 14:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Latashia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, absoultely nothing....Your body is not ready to have sex and if he is not understanding or smart enough or intelligent enough to understand this then he has a major problem. Your hormones may take 3-6-9-12 months to adjust. Your physical status is what is not healed and ready for intercourse. If you want to have oral with him to satisfy his needs that would be ok. Seems he may be really selfish if he is wanting you to perform and it has only been three weeks....Take care of yourself and be sure to get permission from your doctor before you do have intercourse with him. You could do damage to yourself if you do it now and your body is not healed........Good luck.
2006-09-18 14:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Momtotowboys 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats a big "no no".. i know you're not supposed to have any sort of sex til your 6 week check up after having the baby
2006-09-18 15:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait! If he loves you then he can wait for you to have time to heal. It's not like he will never get to have sex again. It's only 6 weeks!
2006-09-18 14:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by jcbsmm 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell him no.....that you just squeezed an entire human being out of your body and it has to have time to recover!! Typical wait time is 6 to 8 weeks and your doctor will release you to have sexual intercourse. So he is just gonna have to wait.
2006-09-18 16:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by vickyc76 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has to wait 3 more weeks. Tell him to take matters into his own hands!
2006-09-18 15:32:24 · answer #11 · answered by JS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋