i have been living with this guy and i do lots with him. I want to date him but i am not sure if he want to go that far with this yet how do i find out?
2006-09-18 07:24:26 · 13 answers · asked by Sweet Heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask him - what's so bloody hard about that?
2006-09-18 07:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by MrsTrellis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Errrrr you live with him? I didn't know it was possible for the opposite sex to liv together as friends. If you guys do a lot with each other and are close, then why not just be open and honest with him. Can you still be friends with him if he tells you that he isn't interested?
2006-09-18 14:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by lcplyr7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO is this your roommate? I would wait, he has to have the same or similar thought of you, if he is interested, if he isn't then why ruin a live in situation, he will come around if he is interested. you have to wait, I know its difficult, but wait for him to make the first move. You didn't want him feeling all awkward around you and you embarrassed. the similar situation happened to me, I work at school and has the hots for a teacher, after TWO YEARS of WAITING, he finally came around and got it out of my system (wink, wink) and now guess who is looking for who now??
You guessed it him!
Patience is a virtue.
2006-09-18 14:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by chula1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you are roommates. This one can be tricky because if you tell him it can ruin your relationship and you might have to find another roomie because he may feel uncomfortable , this is only if he doesn't feel the same way about you. NOW if you two have hooked up in that way before then you can ask him how does he feel about going to the next "level" .
2006-09-18 14:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're the "friend" and he has the "benefit", if you get my drift. Why should he commit to you if he's already getting what he wants. I think you've already blown it (no pun intended) with this guy. Time to move on. Next time, don't give it up so easily...hint ;)
2006-09-18 14:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask him. But you need to make sure that he has some feelings or else things will be very uncomfertable esp when you live with him.
2006-09-18 14:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by The First 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wht the hell are u talking abt? u havnt dated him but u are living with him? how does that work?
2006-09-18 14:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by cranberries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... ask him out on a date.
but take into account that if you date him and it doens't work out, you still have to live together.
2006-09-18 14:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you live with him if you haven't even dated?
2006-09-18 14:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get close to him , and see what he does . if he plays with his belt a Little he is yours.
2006-09-18 14:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋