I really don't understand why people act so distant twords me at school. I am always a nice person, always smile and try to talk to people, yet it seems in some ways I am "exluded" from everyone else. I don't dress different, I am generally dressed pretty casual in Juicy couture velour/terry pants and a layered lacoste polo and old navy flip flops and a very simple jewlery. I am not trying to impress anyone. I am married, with a baby. I would just like to meet some new girlfriends. What can I do to help people open up to me?
2006-09-18 07:10:34 · 10 answers · asked by Isabelle F 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I went back to college when I was 30. I had six children... uuuuggggghhhh! I was surrounded by babies, (in school and home) I know you want to fit in, but you are there to get some serious education....forget those fools. It is early in the semester, people will start warming up, they are scared too. Good luck with your dreams
2006-09-18 07:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Annie R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand you are trying to have some friends and maybe you should try finding someone at your level. Maybe these girls arent the right click for you. When things are moving away from you, you should take it as God is removing them, before you get in to some trouble with them. Thats what I tell my kids. I'm not saying you are a kid but those girls who act like that towards you, are the ones acting inmature and you don't need those kind of friends in your life.
2006-09-18 07:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sugars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm....ok well i go to school and although we wear a uniform (which has its good points and its bad!!) the type of clothes u were are(in ireland anyway-expenzive!!!and i know in america you get them at REALLY good prices!!!ahh i just love clothes....ahem sorry!!) pretty really nice clothes!! i find that when u compliment some one it breaks the ice with them immediately, they open up sooo much faster to you rather then u saying to them....how r you!!!
dont ***** bout anyone...im sure u dont but even a slight comment can get around the school, and therefore nobody would like to talk to u!!!if u c what i mean.
So 1 compliment
No.2 dont be a biatch!!!
No.3 i know it will be hard but maybe u cud invite them round to ur house for a few drinks!!!
i dont know.....use the compliment thing anyway!!!
hope i helped!!!
2006-09-18 07:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by I_Luv_P!NK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont supply in on your fears. that's in all probability no longer something. She is busy and she or he's thinking in case you're gonna call and set each thing up. in simple terms guy up and phone. If she doesnt answer. do no longer go away a voicemail. textual content cloth her and say "hiya? Havent heard back from you. do you want to study out the play or go trekking or an outdoors stay overall performance or mini golfing?" supply her yet another determination in case she extremely would not want to work out some gay play'. Thats my advice. call her!
2016-10-15 03:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly. Try to engage others in conversations. It may be that they are jealous, or that they are just not extroverted people, and take time to warm up to a person. give it time, keep being friendly, and it will happen.
2006-09-18 07:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by susan w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find a hobby or join a school club/group and meet friends there
2006-09-18 07:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by enigma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to do what you are doing. People will open up to you.
2006-09-18 17:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean girl friends or do you mean girlfriends?
Everybody has their mind on themselves and not other people, these days.
It prob'ly is not even YOU.
2006-09-18 07:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might be jealous....but they also just might not be the nicest of people....
but also why are you still in school if you are married and have a baby???
2006-09-18 11:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are trying to hard to be nice......I mean dont be mean but dont be so eager..................go with the flow
2006-09-18 08:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by r0ckerchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋