hi, some of you may have read my other post.
I am pregnant and everyone is telling me that I should of used birth control and that I should of kept my legs closed, but the truth is I was raped and now I am having the rapists baby. I dont want to sign all my rights over to someone else, my mum beats me anyway so I cant tell her and I dont have any other family.
Please help.
2006-09-18 06:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well i think that u should go to the police asap
i also think that u should find some way of coping like maybe counseling in go seek some kind of emotional support
let people say what the hell they want
u just be strong
and remain content with yourself and the that this will pass
u have to learn from situations not sit and dwell on the fact that they are not so good right now
if it is to much to have
keep your baby atleast a week after its born in you can even the day u birth it leave it there
Now UNDERSTAND THAT RAPE IS WHEN U ARE FORCED TO DO IT
NOT DOING IN DIDNT WANT TO DO IT IN REGRET IT
RAPE IS NOT TEASING ASKING FOR IT AND THEN REFUSE
RAPE IS NOT HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX BECOMES INPREGNATED IN SEEKS AN EXCUSE THAT SEEMS ACCEPTABLE
RAPE IS NOT LOOKING FOR A STORY TO TAKE THE NEGATIVE EYE AND OPINION AWAY
RAPE IS BEING FORCED TO HAVE SEX OF ANY KIND AGAINST YOUR WILL
RAPE CAN ALSO BE BEING DRUGED IN POSSESSED BEYOND YOUR WILL
UNDERSTAND THAT!
BUT EVEN IF U WERE UNFORTUNATLEY RAPED IN HAVE CONCIEVE SINCE
REPORT THIS
AND FIND THE INTERNAL TO GET THROUGH LIFE
AND PLEASE DONT EXSPECT IT TO BE EASY
BUT GAIN CONTROL AND DONT LET YOUR ENCOUNTER CONTROL U
THE THING IS NOW YOUR MA
U CAN CONTACT A JUDGE AND THEY WILL FIND A YOUTH HOME FOR U
OR JUST LET THEM KNOW THE SITUATION AND HE WILL WORK WITH YOU
GOOD LUCK
AND SORRY TO HEAR THAT
2006-09-18 06:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister wants to adopt a baby more than anything, so you should give it up for adoption and give someone like my sister a chance to take a tragic rape and make it positive by giving the child a good life and giving you a release from having to keep the baby.
2006-09-18 13:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the pregnancy crisis center and get a consuler, She can become your advocate , FYI as long as you are pregnant you are considered emancipated so your mom cant control any thing in regards to the baby. I hope you reported the rape at least.
2006-09-18 13:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in this perdicumentso i dont know if this will help .Well i know you are scared but you need to do what you feel is right .There are choices you have and you can get good resourses about the choices at any planned parent hood or any pregnancy clinic .They will also have good resourses for counsling too.i hope i helped
2006-09-18 13:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Megan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a women's clinic or a community center where you can get some free counseling. There are a lot of people who can help you through this hard time. You don't have to do it alone.
2006-09-18 13:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by ask the eightball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere to a shelter or something get some help or tell your mom what happened and see if she will help u if not then i have no idea sorry good luck
2006-09-18 13:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by M<3 J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am very sorry this happened to you!!! but it's your choice to keep the baby move away,far away from your mother keep the baby,don't listen to what other people say. sounds like you need counseling but if you ever want to talk e-mail me gochellez@hotmail.com good luck
2006-09-18 14:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥ lou lou ♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to the police hun but dont let anyone force you to do any thing you dont want to remember it your baby not theres good luck hun
2006-09-18 13:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someone can adopt both of you.
2006-09-18 13:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋