This is strange but true. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship. We are best friends and have vowed to be completely honest with each other about everything. Her birthday is coming up and she has told me that she doesn't want jewlery or clothes. She says that she wants to do something naughty for her 25th birthday. Something completely out of character. She wants a stripper in a private hotel room. She said that she would pay back on my birthday. Any fantasy I wanted. I agreed--it may not sound like it but she is actually a good girl..she's been faithful.. Well, she has obviously put some thought into it because she recently said that she has decided upon a muscular, black stripper., completely naked. Ground rules are this: no touching but no sex. I searched forever for her stripper without luck. Finally, I found a guy at my gym. Only, his rule is this: his g-string comes off only if she removes her panties. When i told her, she just smiled and said it was up to me. Should I?
2006-09-18 06:27:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Sure if your ready to get rid of her
2006-09-18 06:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like something that will put strain in your relationship. If you have to question it then you know you're better off not doing it.
Everyone has fantasies, yes they're fun but fantasies are meant to stay in your mind and to only be played out in your mind not to be played out in real life, specially when you start involving other people. Personally I think that if a couple wants to bring in someone else, they both need to be very secure with themselves and trusting. Ask yourself, is this something you feel comfortable and okay with? Something that will not leave you wondering if she is cheating or thinking of other men?
This is a very touchy issue and only you know your girlfriend and your relationship. . Honestly, just the fact that she is willing to take her panties off in front of another man (while fulfilling a fantasy) would make me wonder why she would even go there. I don't think its worth ruining a good thing, and it sounds like so far, you guys have a good relationship.
Good Luck
2006-09-18 07:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Cute City Chick♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she need a stripper?! Do you feel comfortable with this? If not, you need to tell her how you feel. Just be honest. Would you want a stripper for your birthday in return? If you do, let her have her fun, and then you will have yours. Really, why can't you be her stripper, and she be your stripper? You all are boyfriend, and girlfriend, you don't need to be looking at other people anyway.
2006-09-18 06:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweettart05921 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a professional! Look up some strip clubs in your phonebook and ask if you can hire a male stripper.
Professional strippers know the rules and most of them abide by them. Some random guy won't give a crap about rules.
2006-09-18 06:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope and she is playing you......unless your there to make sure nothing happens, happens is what she wants....or why would she need it in a hotel room alone? Don't be an idiot. This isn't a fantasy its her desire.....if doing another chick or having her rub her parts in your face is what you want for your birthday then you both need to re-evalutate the relationship.
Otherwise you could send her to Vegas for her birthday with maybe one friend. The Thunder From Downunder are fabulous, hot and get pretty damned close, not close enough to touch....except when you take your pic with them afterwards.
2006-09-18 06:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Are you sure you want to be dating someone who is so willing to put herself in a position that might ruin your relationship and make you question her ability to be faithful to you. Sounds like a strange request for a birthday present and I'd wonder why she'd want something like that in the first place. Shouldn't she want you wearing nothing but a ribbon and a smile instead??
2006-09-18 06:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by kw524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if I were you, I'd go looking for another stripper. Unless you're ok with her panty-less. Still... this is supposed to be someone doing something for her, not the other way around... If this guy wants hers off, he's looking for more than showing off.
2006-09-18 06:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, i would not let her do that to you. Thats wrong you ahould have sex with her, and not have a stripper ina pivate hotel room, thats a sign for trouble, I think that she's using you. There are plenty of hott girls there find a girl thats going to be faithful to you not a girl thats going to be doing **** with a black stripper. And are you even black? because obviously she's attracted to back guys....
2006-09-19 10:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, you shouldnt she might be faithful but with something like that right infront of her in a hotel room with no one around she would do something and you would never know. I cant believe she would want to see another guy naked thats what she has you for.
2006-09-18 06:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont see where this is gonna lead to & the consequences do you ? A black guy plus he works out in the gym? Sex with a capital S can be seen & smelt. Why do you not see that? Dont do it or you are gonna regret it tremendously !!!!
2006-09-18 06:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know what might happen. if you aren't going to be there..... it might be the end of a perfect relationship and a start of an on the edge relationship. You may not think anything of it right now... but once it happens.... you never know.
2006-09-18 06:34:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋