I am a senior in high school and there is another guy "Matt" who i would love to have in all different positions but he does not know. My gym locker is across the room from his but I have a great view of everything. yes, i mean everything. I have to make this short, I am in the library now. He is a jock and acts so cool, hates gays and all that. But everytime he changes in the locker room, he makes sure I can all. Strips down and walks right past me. gives me that heads up "whats up" nod. Heads to the showers. I sometimes give him a ride home from school. he is dating this cheerleader slut, that pretty much gets with everyone. I dont think he is really into her. Yesterday, I decided to give him a little of his own medicine. I removed my shirt, dropped by boxers and proceeded to the towels that were next to his locker. I did notice that he gave me a quick look. No facial expressions. later in the day, I found him and his GF in each others arms. what should I do next?
2006-09-18 06:13:58 · 12 answers · asked by soccerboi9999 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He is always asking me into his house when I drop him off. I am always hard as hell when driving. I see the khaki shorts all baggy and I just want to reach in and go to town, but just affraid to. Maybe I should go in and take it slow. Maybe he will make the first move.
2006-09-18 06:49:32 · update #1
I am now on my PDA, so it going to be slow. I am calc right now and he is three rows over. I look out of the corner of my eye. I swear he is looking at me. Damn those legs and what he probably leads to. UMMM cant control! Everytime I look over he looks away. He may be looking at me. I dont know.
2006-09-18 07:44:02 · update #2
Trust me, what he has .... FINE! Here is a number 8. Thats all! TAN and SMOOTH!
2006-09-18 07:49:15 · update #3
The GF is fake. He only uses her for sex. Got to go, he is waiting for a ride......................................................in my car. HAHAHA.
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I will post an update on tuesday.
2006-09-18 09:07:05 · update #4
i like the idea of having given him some of his own medicine, but i think you should go a litlle bit slow now that you said that he hates gays...just try and be his friend and in whatever intimate association you can get with him (preferably out of the gym) go a little deeper and see what he's up to, don't be so nosy, use mystery and let him imagine what you can be up to...if he's a catch, go for it and see where it will lead both of you to, if not, leave him alone.
2006-09-18 06:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if your are "out" and everyone knows it in way one way or another I feel that he is some how "teasing" you ...You should ask him...talk to him...let him know hey whats up....Ask him hey how come you been doing this to me??...because as long as he keeps doing that then you are just assuming things without really knowing whats on his mind...and I honestly do not recommend that you assume that he is also gay or that he is into you....it could be that he is just confused you know...and having a gf is just a cover up but Im just assuming that as well...So my best advice is to just have a talk with him and just ask him straight out and let him know you do not appreciate what he is doing. But just be carefull though cause some people are just mean and I would not like for u to get ur *** kicked by him and his "friends" should you make advances on him and it turns out hes not gay or confused and only dislikes you for being gay.....take care!!
2006-09-18 13:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are cruising for a bruising. I suggest you turn your attention elsewhere. If he is teasing you it might be on a dare from his girl friend, or his homophobic buddies. It might be trying to lure you into a position where he can defend his attacking you physically.
You say he outwardly acts as if he hates gays and has a girl friend... so why put yourself in the path of peril?
There are plenty of fish in the sea, let this piranha be.
2006-09-18 15:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Silvatungfox 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to determin if his glance at you in the locker room was just curiousity. Sometimes it can be. Your going to have to continue playing it cool. And drop down too nothing more often and see what he does. If he looks everytime thn you my be able to safely say he may be curious and into experimentation or bust bi baby. Either way something is probably up. But dont just confront him straight on. Just incase he aint.
2006-09-18 13:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by candylishus 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything at all at school.
If he asks you into his house - then go with him. If he pursues things with you then have fun.
But if he is outwardly a hater - don't expect him to be friends with you if you fool around. In fact he might even shut you out. If you do anything to suggest that you are gay or that you two might be more than friends he might physicly attack you.
Only you can decide if this is worth pursuing based on this.
2006-09-18 14:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow it sounds like a bad 80's movie, fer sure.
He is not openly gay so back off. You will end up embarrassed or worse, physically hurt. He could be testing you for reasons other than what you may think.
2006-09-18 13:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IF you are smart, NOTHING. Do not set yourself up for a serious bruising, not only by him, but by your whole school. If he finds out you are Gay, everyone in school is going to know it. His actions are NOT out of line in any respect. Stop the wishful thinking and get real.
2006-09-18 13:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he hates gay people, than that is a bad sign for you both coming together in my opinion.
does he know you are gay? if not, guys invite their friends into their home, play computer games or make sports and watch movies, this is what i know -- or watch porns and talk about women,
i think when this "matt" you love invites you to his home to do the things i mentioned above,
when you are gay, that =not that everybody think the way you do..
women look at each other naked, who doesnot?
maybe they just compare the body of their friends to them, if they are well propotioned or not, i mean people look at everything imaginable, and if "matt" looks at you when you are naked, it is just comparing what you have to what he has!
2006-09-18 14:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by franky c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it be for now. You don't know if he's gay, and if he acts like he "hates gays" then he might react poorly to you expressing your interest in him. If he is interested, then he really needs to get his sh*t in order (for example, losing the GIRLfriend). Right now, he doesn't sound like he'd be any good for you.
2006-09-18 13:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The next time he strips down and walks past you, gives you the head nod.......reach out and grab his c.o.c.k. as he walks by.... he'll have to stop since you're holding it.....when he does, take it in your mouth and deep down your throat for a second, all the while staring in his eyes....then take it out, smile at him, and say "I'll see you after school, maybe this time I can get a ride...."
Trust me, he'll be waiting at your car with the hardest c.o.c.k. you ever saw.....
2006-09-18 13:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋