Yeah i was bord so i asked this so dont ask so yeah. just answer with yes and why or no and why
Later
Via
2006-09-18 06:09:41 · 26 answers · asked by ~Mrs. Bubbles~ 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ok all u dont have to be rude about it. but is all good i have a bf and he did not Frinng rape me ok get it, got it, good!
2006-09-18 06:15:17 · update #1
Ok ok ok i am still in ******* school. and i am only a softmore in high school and no i am not the best speller. so u can kiss my well u know ***! and i was trying to be nice about it but never mind just anwser the question and i will be happy and thanks to the people that did it right!
2006-09-18 06:18:45 · update #2
wrong? no. because none of gods children are wrong.
sad? yes because as seen in your question,you've deprived
your self an education and a life. be smart go back to school and
take care of your kids the right way so you can teach them as you
all grow together.
2006-09-18 06:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 and 3 kids?? I'm 21 and have no kids! I'm sorry but I think that is toooo young to have kids. You should have at least waited until you graduated high school. How are you taking care of them? You know, it's a shame that all these young teens are having kids, knowing that it's a huge responsibility, in which they are not ready for financially, physically, and mentally. Babies these days will break your pockets. And at age 16, you need a work permit to get a job (at least in Detroit, you need one). Since you have 3, you need 2 jobs or more. Because you gotta have diapers, formula, baby food, bibs, bottles, pacifier. There is so much sh*t you have to buy, it's ridiculous.
So how are you gonna balance school, work, and time for the kids? And what about having fun? You can't hang with your friends, because you're a parent and you have take care of your responsibility. I wonder how does your parents feel. I know a lot of parents would look at you and say you're a disgrace and think that your life is bascially ruined. You'll probably get kicked out and get your own place. Now you got rent and utilities to add to the expenses. But then, there are some who don't give a sh*t about what you do with your life. But it makes me sick to my stomach to see someone so young with kids and here I am struggling with work and school and I have no kids.
Being a mother is a hard job. That's why I'm preparing myself for whenever my time comes. I wanna be ready because I want my child to have everything that I never had. I don't want to depend on my parents or ask the Government for help like evryone else who is too lazy to get a job. I want to be independent. And I would love my child unconditionally. But for you, all I can say is good luck. I hope the baby daddy isn't a deadbeat. Just make sure those babies are taken care of. It's not their fault they came into this world. Give them all the love they need and deserve.
2006-09-18 13:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Loni J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, And no
To your first question Having three kids isn't wrong. But its sad that you couldn't experience adult life with out having such a responsibility. Its good that you keep them all if you know what i mean, alot of people are getting abortions and keep doing the same thing every time they get pregnant so they have no consequence(less std's).
To your second question, there should be an age limit for having sex. a 5 year old can't consent to sex. A 14 year old can't have sex with a 25 year old, any one over 18 can have consensual sex with any one over 18. Two people close to the same age should be able as long as they understand what sex is and how it can affect there life, and own up to the responsibility
2006-09-18 13:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Letmebeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There should be an age limit for sex. I don't think young people are equipped with the devices to deal with their consequences.
If I could go back and take back all of my underage sexual experiences, GOOD and bad, I would.
At the very least there should be a test of some sort that one has to pass. Psychological and emotional testing.
I realize that my answer is COMPLETELY off the wall and an impossible scenario. This is just my idea of perfecting the system of readiness for sexual activity.
2006-09-18 13:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Wren 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your too young to have that many kids you won't be able to have your own life until you are much older now. Not to mention the fact that you obviously need more schooling. How are you going to help your kids with homework if you have so much trouble with your own spelling. You might think it's a big joke now but wait till the kids are older. It's not going to be fun.
2006-09-18 13:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by gettingmadtoday 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is where the hell are your parents? one child at 16 is bad enough . but this day and age there are plenty of birth control methods out there ,theres no excuse to get pregnant except for plain iggnorance, if i were u id ditch the boyfriend , get my grades up in school and keep your legs closed till u get married!!!!! no ones going to want a women with 3 kids that arent his!!
your parents need a good smack of wake the hell up and control your butt!!
who's supporting these kids? welfare? your parents?
i dont feel sorry for u one bit but my heart does go out to your kids.
i dont want the 10 points either , just had to say my piece on this one.
2006-09-18 13:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by kikiaboo29 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no i think how old you are when you have sex is based on more of a maturity level... if you can talk to the other person about methods of birth control, of what would happen if you did get pregnant (or in your case three times) then your ready... it all just depends on the person... i highly doubt you are 16 with three kids... after the first one did you not learn??
2006-09-18 13:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope everyone pays attention to this question !
THIS is why teens NEED to stay in school !!!
16 with 3 kids, and your spelling is atrocious ! Not to mention that your second comment is incomprehensible.
How on earth do you plan on teaching 3 kids, when you can't ask an intelligent question yourself !!!!!
2006-09-18 13:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you're too young to have 3 kids, hon. But what can I do about it? It's over and done with. Just as long as you're a nice mother to them things should be all right.
2006-09-18 13:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
from your spelling, it seems like you haven't passed an english class yet, and you have 3 kids? i think it's ridiculous that you would want 3 kids at 16. i don't think there should be an age limit for sex, but i do think it's unfortunate that any woman (err....girl), can get pregnant at that age. two words: BIRTH CONTROL!
and i'm probably paying for your dumbass to be on welfare, right?
2006-09-18 13:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by why do i? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋