she stares at me walking with some other boy and dnt say nothin to me and i try to kiss her and she backs up like i dnt like you or sumthin wat is wrong wit hjer wat should i do should i talk to her and try to get her to tell me
2006-09-18 05:59:13 · 16 answers · asked by bigboicj08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sit her down and try to talk to her tell her that its really bothering u to see her this way dont say that shes mad tho ask her what the emotion is dont presume! and if it is cause of you tell her u'll understand because u know ahead of time so u wont get upset
2006-09-18 06:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by ayani 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit her down and ask her whats wrong, don't shout or go mad just be calm. Tell her you love her but your worried because she is mad and you don't know if you have done somethin wrong. If she wont tell you then give her some space, DON'T go to her friends and ask them because she will think your spying on her and that will make her mad more. If she is walkin with another boy then i would think she might be cheating but don't jump to conclusions. Maybe she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you any more. These are some questions you can ask her on this subject. I hope you find out whats wrong :)
2006-09-18 13:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by holly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say let her cool off for a little bit. I mean, she can't stay mad forever. Eventually she'll have to open up and tell you whats wrong. But if she still refuses and you really want to know, try to get her alone or call or visit her at home where there are no distractions. Look into her eyes and explain to her that you really care for her and would never do antyhing to hurt her. Tell her you are concerned and worried that something is really wrong and ask her to please talk to you. Let her know that if she needs anything, you are there for her to help see her through. Hopefully she'll decide to open up to you. You just have to make a true, honest effort to get her to talk to you. But just give her some space for now.
2006-09-18 13:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her then you need to figure out what is wrong with her. You should sit her down, just you and her and talk. She is your girlfriend so she should not keep secrets from you, relationships are built on trust, if she can't trust you with telling you what's wrong then something is definitly not right in the relationship. You need to talk to her and find out what's wrong.
2006-09-18 13:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by TheFireWithin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously mad at your for something and if she doesn't want to share why.....let her wallow in her madness by herself. Don't make yourself crazy because your gf wants to act like a child instead of expressing her self.
2006-09-18 13:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she found out something about that she doenst like , like a past gf or something, or maybe she found out u said something bad about her theres alot of things that could have gone wrong but u need to be really nice and senstive to figure out wats going out with her...or she could just be in a really bad pms mood
2006-09-18 13:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just not that into you anymore. She isn't really mad at you, you are just getting on her nerves. Instead of telling you directly, she hopes you can catch a hint.
2006-09-18 13:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by loveNromance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do yer self a favor and leave it alone if it doesent blow over in a few days find a new chick good luck mate
2006-09-18 13:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Iknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She found a new man move on
2006-09-18 13:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just keep trying to talk to her...girls are crazy, I know i am one....but just stay cool, talk sweet, apologize for "anything" you did or that she thinks you did. good luck
2006-09-18 13:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by k-mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋