my boy and i have been having this fight over and over again. he swears he won't do it again, but always does. i'm wondering how many chances should i give him, or should i bail now?
2006-09-18 05:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by megan b 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
so i guess it's ok for me to talk to my old boyfriend again? even tho i told him i'd stop? it's about the lying and sneaking around.
2006-09-18 06:01:25 · update #1
Your first answer is right. Any broken promise is cheating. Also, think of this, if he's looking at naked women, he's not thinking of Bible stories, and he's not thinking of you... THAT IS CHEATING. There are guys who can control themselves, find one.... I wish I had.
2006-09-18 05:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by MamaSunshine 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Looking at porn is not cheating. I would call it lying if he promised not to do it anymore. It does not hurt to look, but that is between you and him. Only bail if you are hung up on this a lot of men look at porn and have happy relationships with there significant other. So don't worry so much it is just a male thing.
2006-09-18 05:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I don’t really call it cheating, but I do call it unfaithful.
You may want to consider that he may be addicted to pornography, and although he wants to stop, and be true to his promise to you, he simply can’t without professional help. A lot of people don’t realize this is a legitimate addiction, but believe me, it is. The chemicals that are associated with human arousal and orgasm are extremely potent.
If you’re not married, bailing may be an option you want to consider, but I would first have that conversation about it possibly being an addiction, and seeing if he is open to receiving counseling or going through a 12-step sexual addiction program.
2006-09-18 06:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't consider it cheating. Just like if he were watching porn on video...but I'm not the one who matters. Good Luck with whatever you decide.
2006-09-18 05:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by chartneck 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Cheating is when your significant other has a sexual and/or emotional relationship with another PERSON. Should he also stop watching TV, going to movies, reading magazines(they have been known to have sexual imagery in them)? Are you that insecure that you are threatened by pictures on a screen?
Why don't you join him? It could be fun;-)
Get a grip.
2006-09-18 05:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by abrainconnected 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
if he told you he wouldnt yes. I know its hard but tell him your tired of the broken promises and if he wont keep them youll find someone who will.you deserver better. ive been in your situation before.
2006-09-18 06:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In Matthew 5:28, Jesus says
"But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to desire her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
2006-09-18 05:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by A Healthier You 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
grow up hes a guy hes gonna look at porn regardless thats every guy stop trippin on him over dumb s h i t and no its not cheating
2006-09-18 05:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by bigboss 3 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Any broken promise is cheating!
2006-09-18 05:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by ld_kool_2006 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Why should he have to look at porn when he has you?!?
2006-09-18 06:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋