i became a christian and explained to him that we cant have sex anymore he says he understand but when we are alone he is still begging me for sex what should i do?
2006-09-18 05:27:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Advise him that, in your new persona, what happened is no longer valid and that he needs to accept your position.
if he is a gentleman, he will agree to your wishes
2006-09-18 05:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
They say that love waits, lingers and persists...
So, if he does love you, he will wait for the right time for you guys to do it and will respect you're decision. Do not be pressured. Love can't only be assured through sex...there are too many ways.
2006-09-18 12:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by mashka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion and love are one in the same. You have already opened that Pandora's box (no pun intended) so it will difficult to close.
Seek counseling from your preacher and have your boyfriend go with you.
Good luck.
2006-09-18 12:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have sex because you are a Christian? Something wrong here. Without sex your marriage will not last. Think about it carefully.
2006-09-18 12:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe you should stick to your beliefs and just try doing other things when you are alone make it less intimate and he would come around if he really love you. Good Luck:)
2006-09-18 12:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by loveable 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what you need to do is dump him and find a Christian bf because he's already use to you giving him sex
2006-09-18 12:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give in to him you are a christian now.if he still begging you then he don't understand.you are a new person in Christ now.maybe you need to be with someone who believes like you do.
JESUS loves you.
2006-09-18 12:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are AWESOME! GOOD FOR YOU!! THE LORD WILL BLESS YOU!
God Bless You! Keep letting Christ shine in your heart.
2006-09-18 12:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either push him off or dump him that isn't right he is going against your will
2006-09-18 12:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might have to break it off or get married!
2006-09-18 12:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋