There's a girl in my office who curently with another co-worker but, he's with other girls and I know one in particular and he use(d) to abuse her very badly. I know while but I taught I found the right time to tell her because, she claim the were over but It wasn't true. I din't want her to be hurt agin because she was in a bad marriage was I right to tell her?. And the I went to the movies and saw him with another girl after he claims not to be with anyone...
2006-09-18 05:26:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You were right to tell her. You gave her the information and now it is up to her to do with it what she wants. You never would have forgiven yourself if something bad would have happened to her as a result of her relationship with him. Even if she doesnt listen to you immediatley , he is going to do things that will set off red flags, and what you told her will always be a the back of her mind. Hopefully she will wake up and realize what kind of guy he is before it is too late. But, you can relax and realize that you did everything you could.
2006-09-18 05:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by TRISHTHEDISH76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately sometimes the truth hurts, but better now then an accumulation of hurt, lies and deceit. You did the right thing, that's what a good person would do.
2006-09-18 05:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were right to tell her, but now your part in the conflict is over. I hope that you used better English when you told her, than how you just explained this question....
2006-09-18 05:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her all these things, but its probably likely she wont stop seeing him until she sees for herself. There is only so much you can do. Tell her what you know and see. Its up to her what she does with the information. At least your conscience is clear...
2006-09-18 05:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you have good intentions, it's always best to stay out of these things.
2006-09-18 05:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
co-worker! you say? and not a friend...well, I would you suggest to stay away ...she's old enough to deal with this...but with a true friend it's different...
2006-09-18 05:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-18 05:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tough call. Ask yourself this question: "Would I want to know?"
2006-09-18 05:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were right to tell her.
2006-09-18 05:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u were right to tell her, how she handels it will be in her hands now
2006-09-18 05:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋