would you go out with someone that is fat??

Question

If you would go out with someone that is fat write yes and why .
If you would not go out with someone that is fat write no and why you would not go out with that person.

i know i would not would you ???

Answer 1

Of course I would! If I loved them.

When you love, you see with your heart, not your eyes. Sure, physical appearance can make a difference (a considerable one, at that) but it's not what counts most. What you look like does not define who you are, and I truly do envy the blind for being so free of prejudice. I love all peoples, and those who are overweight should not be excluded for any reason as stupid as physical appearance.

Unfortunately, the majority of the world does not share my views. I dated a girl for about a month until my parents literally forced me to stop seeing her because apparently it gave me a bad image. That really hurt, but I don't believe people should be judged on how they look.

Answer 2

It depends upon the definition of fat. I have a running joke that I use along the lines of "I'd never date a chick with a Body Mass Index larger than mine. Incase we end up in a straight up fist fight I want the weight advantage". I think there's a limit to any person and that's absolutely fine. Some people aren't concerned about a person's weight, while others will only date people who are below a certain weight/size limit. Personally I'd not want to go out with anyone who was fat to the point that they were unhealthy. I myself am an avid fat of fitness so it's only sensible that I would be with someone with the same mentality.

For the record there's nothing wrong with not finding overweight people attractive.

Answer 3

I don't consider myself a shallow person but the truth is I really don't know if I would go out with a fat guy or not. Well, first of all, maybe it depends on how fat he is. If he's not that fat or he's just chubby, then yes I'd go out with him. If he's really, really fat I would hope I wouldn't let physical appearance get in my way but since I've never been put in that kind of situation before I'm not sure how I'd act. (And if I ended up saying no I'd be really mad at myself for being such a jackass.)

I think I'm really weird because I don't think of physical appearance all that much. There have been a lot of times in school where girls were talking about this 'hot' guy. When one of them asked if I thought he was hot I'd just say "He's OK".

In the 9th grade I went to a new school and as soon as I saw this one guy, I thought he was interesting. He was chubby and short and none of the girls really liked him but I just saw this ~special something~ in him. We ended up dating for 2 years.
...Maybe I would say yes to the fat guy as long as I saw that ~special something~ in him....

Answer 4

I would, I do and I am.

Im attracted to personality, intelligence, cleanliness and a whole heap of things more worrying than their size. Would rather a fat sane, funny and loving person than a skinny nutter with b/o.

If you go around life being judgemental on peoples looks you are going to miss out on so much. I feel for you.

Answer 5

how fat? a little chubby maybe... i don't care if a woman isn't gorgeous, but she has to at least not be disgusting. i'd never even consider going out with a woman who is very fat because a relationship wouldn't be complete without the physical end of it and if someone is so fat that they can't turn on the guy that would be forever lacking.

Answer 6

I think skinny people are too shallow minded.. And for being "Blessed" with the body only healthy as you say"fat" people could only dream to have.. They need to be less "Judgemental" and start counting their blessings, because, one day when your old because you have nothing to fill-up your wrinkles, your going to look much older than healthy people!! Trust me!! You will reap what you've sewn, being mean and predjudice towards healthy people!!! Alot of them cant help their "Battle" of the bulge!! They fight all their lives to watch everything they eat !!! And I bet you eat more than half of the over weight people in America!!! Thats how skinny people are, their like "I'm all that I can eat whatever I want and never gain a pound!!" Well lucky you!! Blessed and still unhappy, so much, she has to put someone who's not just like her down.. Sounds a little bit like "Conceit" if you ask me!! Are we a bit conceited, like "Full of yourself" because, everyone's not just like you!! Well guess what News Flash!! God dont make "Mistakes" and healthy or overweight people are meant to be, and were not created in God's image, by Mistake, so you take your skinny Big-head, and continue your cherade, of putting down, all those who aren't JUST LIKE YOU!! And God help you when you get old!!! Ha! Ha! Ha!

Answer 7

If you married a person who became fat would you then dump them? Would you stand by your mate if they became disfigured? If you are a shallow person then do them a favour and avoid them but remember that life plays cruel jokes and maybe it will be you that needs the compassion. Maybe you will end up fat or disfigured. Maybe it will be you looking for a friend. Good luck.

Answer 8

I have gone out with someone fat before, but he had an awesome personality. He was so funny!! To say "I know I wouldn't" makes you sound really shallow. You must be very concieted. Or a *********. Good luck finding someone to actually like you when you act like that.

Answer 9

Listen twiddlecakes, I would go out with a fat boy.

Answer 10

I would and I have. I am a 110 pound former model, but it doesn't matter to me. I want my husband to be weight proportionate for his own health, but some of the best people and most incredible men I have known were people I would have missed out on knowing if I had just eliminated them based on their weight. I am a better person for having had their influence in my life. Not because of their weight, but because of who they were. I would have missed a lot and some very great times in my life by making judgmental assumptions based on shallow reasons. I have really dated ALL types!