to leave.....besides donating his stuff to charity....i need the worst ideas possible......
2006-09-18 05:00:42 · 26 answers · asked by sweetness 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You may have heard this already, but living well is the best revenge.
If you really want to get his goat, find someone who will be good to you and the baby and who is willing raise the child as his own. Then, you and the new man in your life have one more child together, settle down and raise a happy little family. You'll be so busy being happy that you'll forget all about getting back at anybody.
It's what I did, and 20 years later I'm not one bit sorry. My husband and I raised two wonderful kids and have had a fine life together.
In other words, when you're done, let go. Holding onto a grudge and hoping to hurt the other person is like drinking poison and waiting for your enemy to die. It's not only foolish, it can ruin your life.
Enjoy your life. That's the best revenge of all.
2006-09-18 05:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by sparticle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I read your previous posts and understand how mad you must be but honestly, it doesn't matter what you do...no matter how bad you get him...it will still eat you up. I beleive that men who cheat and have kids involved should be nothing short of castrated but now we can't do that can we so the next best thing will be to make him pay for the next 18 years...that will remind him of what he's done for a long time. You'll move on and no doubt find happiness...that will tear him up when he realises that he f***** up! Be a successful mother, easier said than done...try and have a stress free pregnancy. Good luck!
2006-09-18 05:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by ZakiMama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the worst thing you can do is leave and be happy without him. Show him that you don't need him in your life, raise your kid the best you can..that will eat him up.
True, you can burn down his home, screw up his car, ruin every relationship he ever tries to start but that would make you seem bitter and/or still have feelings for him..Your going to be a mommy soon, focus all your energy on that. He's not worth it.
2006-09-18 05:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Melia 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, hmmm, the one thing you will do is go after him for child support once the baby is born. Thats all good and hits him in the wallet where it hurts the most. Other than that I really dont think theres much to do besides date his best friend, lol!
2006-09-18 05:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up. you need to concentrate on getting your life together to make a good home for your child and taking care of yourself properly.
don't waste your energy in trying to get back at him. it won't help matters any and besides if you want child support or any help with the baby later on he will be less likely to give it willingly if you are being mean about the break up
it's better for your child to see you two be apart and be civil to one another than be together and fight all the time.
just think it over. somebody has to be the grown up.
2006-09-18 05:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually telling him your pregnant does the trick! HAHA
Ignore him completely, it will drive him insane! Just leave without telling him don't make a huge fuss over it just up and leave, less complicated that way and less stressful if he doesn't know where to find you, and it give you peace and quiet while you have a chance to think things through.
2006-09-18 05:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by anikkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha - confident!!! i grew to alter into at a prepare as promptly as and stored "smelling" lemons - afterwards, I made my husband take me to a eating place and ate a ton of lemons (and squeezed them on each and every little component)... That grew to alter into with my first - now i'm on my third and get a similar component. purely the quite a few day, each and every room I went in I swore I smelled cat pee - and we don't even very own a cat! i've got have been given additionally had a undesirable style in my mouth all being pregnant long (i'm now 26 weeks) and had quite undesirable nausea. that's not too undesirable now, yet this style in my mouth is gross - i've got have been given taken to chewing cinnamon gum alot, and additionally suck on Alot of candies simply by actuality of it. and assured, each and every so in many cases i've got have been given self assurance i'm fairly loopy! :)
2016-12-15 09:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by idaline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything bad you do will simply make him feel happier that you aren't together.
How about being a mature grown up and a great mother, so that years from now he'll wish he was still with you. Wow, its the right thing to do for you, your child AND probably the thing that will 'get' him most in the long term.
2006-09-18 05:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with others that ignoring him and being happy without him is the best revenge. But it would help a little doing the following: cutting his favorite ties, steping on his fancy watch, buying whatever you want for you and your baby with his credit cards.
He's a jack*** he deserves the pain! You go girl
2006-09-18 05:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing to do is to stay angry. Get over it and move on. The bitterness will only hurt you, and will probably let him think he's winning.
2006-09-18 05:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Papa John 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋