if ur pregnant and u figure ur boyfriend or husband cheating on you..and u have that lil bitchh number how?

Question

would u go about confronting that homewrecker by doing it over the phone.....and please as soon as i confront that *****.....im kicking my soon to be ex.....to the curb.........he's gonna be history soon....

Answer 1

He will do it again and again. They don not stop. Leave him and raise your child on your own. Think about your own mental health. And what about venereal diseases. It can spread to the child or the child may get into contact with it during the birthing process. LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YOU WILL REGRET STAYING WITH HIM!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

So upsetting and disappointing. I agree with everyone who's advised you to concentrate on yourself and your baby. Your husband or boyfriend made the selfish decision to step out on the relationship and deserves your anger. The other woman hardly matters in the end. I'd concentrate on immediate needs, like making sure that you have stable, safe housing (perhaps with family and away from him), financial and social support given that you're expecting. It'll be challenging if you rely on him for financial and other support exclusively right now (i.e., living together; no other friends or family nearby) but make gaining your independence a goal that you'll work toward. You need to be cared for during this time. Care for yourself by choosing not to seek revenge, which is a waste of your energy and spirit. You might be able to work things out with him at some point if you really want to, but create some space for yourself in the meantime to do the thinking that you need to do. Look ahead to your baby's arrival and the steps that you can take to get ready to be the best (and happiest) mother you can be...

Answer 3

Ohh honey id do that and then some but please try and keep yourself calm your preganat and your baby is relying on you.She or he isnt worth your unborn child and u wouldnt be able ot live with your self if something was to happen ,i know its hard but you wont be preganat for long.After you have the baby dont call her honey make a home visit and whoop that A##!ANd in the mean time kick that sorry good for nothing looser out and keep him away from you as much as possible you dont need him around if he is going to treat you in any such way as he is.Your carrying his child he should have more respect and she aint nothing but a skanky hoe!!I wish ya the best im glad you said u were kicking him out just wait before you deal with her if u have to and its eating u alive then call her up and say i thank you for taking that looser off my hands if he would cheat on me and im carrying his child what on gods green earth would stop him from not cheating on you!!But guess what he is your problem now and ill be having this baby soon and when i do this little conversation will come up one more time and i promise after im done with you it will be the last time i have to talk to you about it again..good luck honey and keep on your toes hope ya got eyes in the back of your head cause hes going to cheat on ya and you never know when im going to be standing behind you!!........Good luck hun hope all works out for ya

Answer 4

Ooofty - he's messing with a hormonal mother to be? Hell mend him. Remember, he sounds like a total sh*t, she may not know a) he's married b) you are pregnant c) much about anything. You need a release but you need to watch yourself, you are in a delicate state. Chuck him out first, get your girlfriends over for support. Donate all his stuff to a charity, tell him where it all is and arrange with the charity a price he can buy it all back at if he wants to. Someone will benefit from it. Take care of yourself and remember he has done you a favour, you could have been landed with this fool for years to come - you have an opportunity to meet someone else.

Answer 5

First, she is not the homewrecker - he is. And yes kick him to the curb. If you are pregnant, you don't want to get all worked up, or potentially into a violent situation, so let it go as far as any huge confrontations.

Just worry about the baby and keeping yourself calm and healthy.

Answer 6

ok this has happened to me 2 believe it or not so heres the thing !!

the first lady she knew me and she knew i was pregnant and well even when i confronted her she was like as long as he wants to see me ill be here !! so yea although i wanted to kill her.that would not have resolved the problem because although she knew i was with him any lady any where that knows you or not can flirt with our men and in the end its up to him and how much that person loves us !! so no i did not kick her a## i just told him hey we make mistakes so 3 weeks later( i thought i loved him so was trying to be forgiving ) dumb dumb hahah so anyhow shortly later i asked her and of course she was willing to tell me they had still been together so the best revenge was to let them be together he regretted it and so did she he cheated on her (in his blood i guess) and she cheated on him with another married man ahhahah go figure hahahah

so the second time i was not pregnant though my boyfriend cheated on me but she did not know i existed and the second i confronted her she started crying she dumped him immediatly cuz real woman dont do **** like that and now to this day he is now with a chik like double his size and kicks hiss *** hahahah

and i am friends with the chik he cheated on me with
so make wise decisisions not the fast ones that we regret later or the stir of the moment ones that make us look less of a classy woman ..so be proud of the lady you are and just know you are way to good for him !!! and if for somereason you stay with him because somtimes love blinds us as it did me ..good luck and talk communicate so youll try to find out why he did it in the first place and fix whatever ya know well take care ok ur new friend
brandy [e-mail]

Answer 7

Well I'd call her nondeffensively to find out if she EVEN knows about your hubby. She probably doesn't, and you can save her from heartache too. Then when you find out for sure he's been cheating, talk to him about why he did it. You two will have lots of talking to do. Some people manage to work things out after things like this, others don't. Only you two can decide that. Good luck! (BTW what others are saying is right, the person you really should be mad at is just him)

Answer 8

if your not positive that he is cheating, do a little research first. Don't just act out of anger because you might do something that you will regret later on. No one ever wants to do this but i think its the smartest thing...if you have the girls phone number, call her....dont yell at her - talk to her...ask her to meet you for lunch or something so she cant hang up on your or avoid you...talk to her about what you think happened, but dont yell...she will probably be honest and tell you....you could ask him to but he will probably lie if he did cheat on you....if he did cheat on you leave him...but dont leave him before you know because there is a baby involved, and the baby is going to need a father...and since he is the dad he is going to be stuck in your life for a very long time wether the two of you are together or not....cuz something similar to that happened to my friend, she has a lot of trouble getting over him because she really just wants to have a happy family.

Good luck hunnie...im sorry that happened to you

Answer 9

Don't lower yourself. So far you're the only person in this equation with any class -- don't let that change.

I wouldn't have anything to do with her. If she knows, she's lower than snake shyte, so talking to her won't change it. And if she doesn't know, what good does it do to tell her? Chances are she won't listen to anything you have to say. She'll find out about him soon enough when he does her the same way.

Just remove yourself from this guy and don't look back. Don't let him sweet talk you into getting back together, and don't argue with him.

There are plenty of guys out there who don't cheat on their wives and girlfriends (and mothers of their children), and you deserve to find one. Even if you don't find another man, being alone is a hundred times preferable to being with this lowlife.

Stand strong.

Answer 10

Well - it's not the girls fault....your boyfriend s the problem.

However - you really need to make sure that you are right and he is really cheating and not that you are fantasizing. Seriously - when you are pregnant such thoughts are coming up to you easier.

If it is confirmed - then hey - leave him a.s.a.p.

But.....also....important...to help such things are not happening to you in the future......you need to look to yourself and ask yourself whether there is anything perhaps you could have done to keep your boyfriend happy. Why did he cheat? For your future relationships you should seriously investigate this question and try to be a really good woman to your new man.
(No bitching, lots of love, lots of good sex), if you have a good man make him happy.

If he is a bad man then kick him out.

Answer 11

a woman is always hurt when a man cheats on her. But much more so when she is pregnant and vunerable. Unfortunately, most men cheat when their women are pregnant b/c of their own fears or maybe their womans changing moods or bodies. Don't do anything that will hurt your baby, like fighting. Relax, try not to stress. Take your emotions out of it and think about what is best for you, your baby and your relationship in the future.