Hi, I took two pregnancy tests about 10 minutes ago and they've both come up positive. I am only 15 years old and I've only ever slept with two boys, I dont know what to do now, my mum is going to crucify me and I dont have the money to look after a child. Please help me.
2006-09-18 04:29:04 · 13 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Also, my mum beats me, how am I supposed to tell her without her punching the baby out of me.
I dont have any other family and I am total anti-abortion. I dont want to loose my child altogether, i might put it up for fostering.
2006-09-18 04:45:22 · update #1
Sweetie,
It not the end of the world; I know your scared and think your mother is going to crucify you but she's not. This is a serious issue, you have to sit down and talk to your mother about. There are options, adoption/abortion, choose carefully. It is also important to think about the father of the baby too. Some fathers want to be there for their child, his family might also want to adopt your baby. I have a friend who had her son when she was 13. She gave him up for adoption. The last time she saw him in person was when he was 3 but has kept in touch with the family that has adopted him and has pictures of him up until know. She never regretted giving him up because she knows he was well taken care of. My friend also had her daughter at 14. My friend lives with her mother and her daughter is being raised by my friend’s father. This way she is always close to her. Like I said there are options, and please think about the consequences. Your options are: 1) keep the baby and raise it at home, while your mother helps, 2) give it up for adoption, 3) let someone else in your family raise the baby, 4) if the father wants the baby, his family can raise it, 5) give it up for adoption, 6) have an abortion. Just remember, your family will be there for you no matter what the decision is.
2006-09-18 04:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by luvlynspecial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow honey you are very very young i wish i could be pregnant i have been trying and nothing yet i am married and i am 22. Well honey i think if you tell you mom maybe she will be really upset and maybe she will start hitting you just go to your closest adoption place i guess and if you want to do this put the baby Thur adoption if i new where you where i would definitely help you out i don't like woman leaving their baby's because of this i am so so sorry you are going Thur this i Hope everything works out for you. Take care and your baby to. God Bless You.
2006-09-18 04:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by ~My 1st. Girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi blondie . i have a daughter who had a baby at 14 . i know what you arre going through it is a very scary situation and u feel alot of emotions right now... but you need to decide what is best for the child if you have a great family supposrt and they are willing to help you then you should raise th child . if not then you need to think about adoption . there are many families in the world who cant have children and earn to have a child . think about this ? what greater joy then blessing someone with a womderful gift . i just ask that you dont be like one of the scared teenagers that dump there child in the trash . or alley . i know your scared hunny . but you only know what to do . good luck hunny and may god bless you//
2006-09-18 04:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by txrkanawalls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should of thought of that before hand and kept your legs closed since you dont know what birth control is.And it only takes 1 time i dont care how mnay diff boys you have been with.The best thing for that baby your carrying is for you to tell your mom she will get upset im sure ,your only 15 but she isnt going to kill you its a little to late now.Because you need to be going to the doctor as soon as possible for that babys sake and your as well.Being preganat you have to have medical care the sooner the better.If you dont want the baby or cant raise it maybe your mom would which im sure she would before she let her grandchild be raised by strangers or give it up for adoption let the baby have a chance.See this is what kills me little kids having sex when they have no bussines dong it!!If you cant use protection or worry about getting pregnant no better than that u shouldnt even be doing anything,Your a kid but guess what your about to grow up real fast!!You kids dont think of the bad things that can happen having unprotected sex till it happens and its too late,you know what if you were an adult and knew better this may of never happened all i can say is have it take care of yourself while your cayying it for the babies sake and do the right thing when its born you played now its time to pay!!I have no pity for you!!You want to act like an adult and have sex at 15 now you will be treated like one..wish ya luck and ill pray for the babies sake!
2006-09-18 04:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to tell your mom and then go see a doctor to see if its correct and you can give the baby up for adoption. Alot of parents would love to have a child but they can't. It only takes one time to get pregnant. Next time use a condomn and get on birth control. Don't get an abortion. Just give the baby up and some of them will still let you see your child if you want to. Good luck.
2006-09-18 04:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions like yours make me sad. You are so young! Why are you having sex at 15 anyway? Oh well, too late for that now.
Tell your mom ASAP, so she can take you to the doctor's so you can make sure. Go through your options... abortion, adoption, keep the baby, whatever. The decision is up to you. But if you keep the baby, make sure you understand that is it YOUR baby. It is not your mother's, so understand that the baby is your responsibility. You cannot come and go as you like anymore. You will be responsible for another person. Do not pawn your child off on your mother, or other people, for that matter.
Sorry... off on a rant... I get mad at girls who have babies and then just give them to their own mothers so they can go out and party... My sister did that very thing and it still pisses me off.
2006-09-18 04:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by blahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, you are pregnant. You should tell your mom as soon as possiable. You have options...you can always place the child up for adoption. There are lots of families out there that would love to have a child and can't. Hang in there. I'll be praying for ya!
2006-09-18 04:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by jamiecarter01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am 17 years old, and my sister has gone through 2 pregnancies. she was in some trouble with mom, but she told the truth. so tell your mom, she might be mad at you at first, but she will alwas love you. no matter what you do. who knows your family might just help you with the baby, but the only thing is you have to be a parent at a young age. you can't do all those things that you loved to do; like going to the mall with your friends(well i mean you can you just have to carry your baby with you), you can't spend the night out, because you have someone else who needs you at home. Tell your mom the truth, and she might be mad, but it is alot better then lieing to her. if you need anything please don't hesitate to im me at darkmagiciangirl301@yahoo.com
2006-09-18 04:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, Do Not Have an Abortion!
Abortion is murder. Talk to a counsler and get some help. It won't be bad it will just be hard. Be strong and hang in there!
2006-09-18 04:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by rg_412002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I read the thing wrong :-) YOU ARE PREGNANT! Get some hekp but despite what you may think...your mom will be there for you...initially she'll flip out, but she wont turn her back on you...be strong. If you need anyone to talk to IM me @ missphatgyrl@yahoo.com.
Good Luck
2006-09-18 04:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by BlackandBeautiful2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋