Breast Implants?!?

Question

I want them to have the shape but don't know if I should because I should be happy for who I am, but I get jealous looking at other girls' breasts. I literally don't have any shape whatsoever and it's driving me nuts.

What do you think about breast implants?

Answer 1

I think you should do what feels comfortable for you. And then ask why? Are you doing it because you want the attention? Trust me when I tell you that that kind of attention isn't all it's cracked up to be. You know the saying "be careful what you ask for?" You ask for a certain type of attention and you get it! And trust me, what gives it to you isn't the stuff dreams are made of!! LOL!!
I'm big...naturally...and I absolutely ABHORE the attention. But if you don't mind the attention and you think it will give you a boost in confidence and your comfortable with all the other aspects of yourself, then why not?

Before you decide on surgery, I would say start small....like buy those breast enhancers...you can get them anywhere. They're usually the color of your skin, they stick to your skin and you wear them under your bra. Also, go to Nordstrom's or one of it's affiliates and get fitted for a bra. You can't even realize how the right size/fitting bra can change your look!!! I don't wear the right size bra on purpose cause I'm afraid to know what I actually wear!! Your supposed to measure right below your breasts and add 3 inches if odd or 4 inches if even. Like if you measure 29 inches add 3 and you know your band measurement is 32. Next measure around breasts. 0 inch is a AA cup, 1 inch is an A cup, 2 inches is a B cup, 3 inches is a C cup and so on. So if you measure around your breast and it's 34 inches around, subtract the band measurement of 32 and that leaves 2" which will mean you're a B cup, bra size is 32B. But go to Nordstrom's Department Store, see http://about.nordstrom.com/MapPoint/PrxInput.aspx?origin=tab for a store near you, and get fitted by someone in the lingerie area, they're trained for this.

So try that for awhile and see how you like it. It may be that that will be enough for you. Just hold your head up high and feel confident and you'll notice a difference without surgery. While at Nordstrom's, why not go to the make-up counter and have them put your make-up. Take a trip to the salon and get a haircut and maybe some subtle color. You'll feel different and pretty. If at the end you feel like something more permanent, then go for it. Don't go to gigantic though, maybe 1-2 cup sizes bigger is just fine. Bigger looks like you're trying to hard.....unless that's the effect you want then all the power to ya!

Whatever you chose should be what's best for you, not for someone else. Listen to yourself and don't let others judge you for ANY decision you make. It's not their life, it's yours, you have to live it, not them. I hope this helps a little. Good luck to you! *hugs*

p.s., if you decide on the surgery, please, PLEASE do your research. Find the best doctor, don't go for the cheapest. This is your body and possibly your life we're talking about. Whatever you do, don't skimp on quality over price. Go for the best even if it means shelling out a few more bucks!!!

Answer 2

I have had mine for a year and a half and I would do it again in a heartbeat. I can't begin to tell you how much better it made me feel. My advice is to not go too large though, the bigger they are the more obvious it is that they aren't real. Mine are very proportionate to my body and most people that don't know me from before the surgery don't know I've had them done. Of course I'm also very modest in my choice of clothes so I don't run around with them hanging out like so many women who get implants feel the need to do. Just remember that it won't change your life.

Answer 3

I know alot of men don't like women with breast implants and that's fine, to each it's own. A year ago, I had breast implants put in, I didn't do it, to get them bigger, because I love the size of my breasts, which is a natural 36 C cup. I got the implants because I wanted the lift that they give you. My husband and I discussed implants, a year before I even got them and although he thought I didn't need them, he supported my decision to get them anyway. Getting implants, is each individuals choice, just make sure it's your decision and your decision only, don't get them to impress anybody.

Answer 4

Get breast implants surgery in India. Cosmetic Surgery is very cheap in India. There is one company that is very famous in India that arranges cosmetic surgery for foreigners in India. They are called the Forerunners Healthcare. I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories.

I have also read that they arrange financing for American and Canadian patients, as cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance. They also have photos pasted of their International patients. You can checkout their website. The cost savings are incredible. As a doctor I personally believe that your cosmetic surgery can be easily handled in India, as the quality of healthcare available here is simply best in the world. The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.

My cousin got a couple of cosmetic surgery procedures in India like the breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift through the forerunners healthcare. She is more than very happy with the results. She just paid 30% of the amount she was quoted in USA and is all praise for this forerunners healthcare company. I personally have seen the wonderful results and am particularly impressed with the kind of quality care she got from this company. I hope this helps.

http://www.forerunnershealthcare.com

Answer 5

I got them about a year ago and have been very happy with it. Do what you feel is right. My confidence went up huge. I can wear tops that I would have never have dreamed of wearing. Tube tops are the best. My hips look smaller because I have a more proportionate look now.

Answer 6

From a guys point of view, don't do it. If the rest of your body is shapeless, you may look top heavy, which would be a dead giveaway that they are not real. Do you want to look like Dolly Partin?

Answer 7

If you know it will make you happy then get them done. I would love to have them but I dont know how I would look and if I would wants the risks.

Answer 8

I would personally love to be larger, though husband says I'm fine, but I'm also not real keen on self-inflicktion of pain. I don't do pain well.

Answer 9

You should do whatever would make you happy...I always said that I would never have them until I got through nursing baby..But6 now I would get them in a heartbeat but hubby will not let me he hates fake boobies.............

Answer 10

JUST SEND ME A QUICK PIC AND I WILL TELL YOU IF YOU SHOULD GET THEM OR NOT... J/K.. ANYWAY I AM NOT A BELEIVER IN THEM.. YOU SHOULD PROB JUST BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE.. NO MAN WILL EVER COMPLAIN ABOUT THEM.. BUT IF IT WOULD MAKE YOU COMPLETELY HAPPY.. WELL THEN ALL THE POWER TO YA.. EL NATUARL IS THE WAY MAMA.. KEEP THE SENSITIVITY.. YOU WILL PROB NEED IT..