Last year this girl was a total byotch to me for no reason and got like thw whole grade talking about me. She really hurt me by saying untrue stuff and insulting my looks. Other people said I'm a slut and I stuff my boobs cause I'm a size 36D and I'm 15 years old. Im tired of people saying stuff about me. LLohans song Rumors applys to me. How can i get these people to stop walking all over me. I dont want to resort to physical violence. thanks in advance
2006-09-18 04:10:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well American Idol I do realize we all have problems but this is seriously affecting my life and self esteem.
2006-09-18 04:13:42 · update #1
kids pick on people who are even a little bit different from them. You are clearly more intellectually and physically mature than your peers so it makes them feel inferior. They would prefer it if everyone was as childish as they are. Quality will out, however, if you focus on the things you are naturally good at and get even better at them you will succeed.
2006-09-18 04:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by XT rider 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well.... I rode in the same boat as you way back when I was in school.
I am now 31 years old and I enjoyed my 10 year class reunion a couple years back.
Y? Because. Some of the jerks who talked smack to abunch of others and thought they were the shidt, Didn't amount to Shidt!
My suggestion is this (And if I could go back in time and redo the last 15 or so years I would do this as well).
Keep your G.P.A. up. Pursue your career and be the best you can be. When yur reunion rolls around. You'll see what I saw/seen (whatever).
2006-09-18 14:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Boon Goonie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my friend was in the 6th grade, everyone made fun of her, harassed her, accused her to doing things she was not doing, they even trash canned her - the teachers and counselors would side with the other kids - it was awful - but then summer came and in the 7th grade she just tried not to do anything that had any appearance of anything they were talking about, and it was better, a lot was forgotten and the mean people had found a new victim, now in 8th grade it is even better, so just ignore them the best you can, talk to teachers and counselors, to see if they can help you in any way, --if anyone is in PE with you they will know your not fakes - the other thing - if it really bothers you, talk to your parents about getting a breast reduction - which is now common for girls your age with too too big ones .
2006-09-18 11:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl just hold your head high, if she's insulting your looks and spreading rumors about you that just means she is way jealous!!! once you get out of school most of this childish behavior stops. I went through it and just mainly stayed to myself so people would leave me alone. Now that I'm older I have lots of friends. Just remember if they are talking about you they are giving someone else a break.
2006-09-18 11:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by hotdam221 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rise above it. Learn to love yourself. Ignore the rumors. You are better than those who tease you if you are brave enough to walk away. Talk to your teacher about what is happening.
2006-09-18 11:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it! dont let other people bring you down. if you do then you are giving them the victory. you should rise higher then them and just shrug it off. you are worth soo much. you should love yourself and see yourself the way God sees you! you're his prized possession andthe apple of his eye.you are beautiful in every way. inside and out. God doesnt make junk!good luck and i pray you will see just how beautiful you are!!
2006-09-18 11:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by AVON rep.07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you get outta school, you will see how stupid and juvenile
this all is. dont worry, this will pass, gossip is finicky and people
will find new girls to pick on
2006-09-18 11:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
their not your friends if they act that way. hang in there unless u believe what they say is true . f.u.c.k them cause u r pretter than her and them so just be beautfull
2006-09-18 11:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by twopipes1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let it bother u
2006-09-18 11:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bananas 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋