ok here is the problem. i am pregnant by my middle school sweet heart and we are madley in love but theproblem is that they baby is not even here yet and my family is demanding that i put him on child support. i mean don;t get me wrong we fuss but not a lot and he takes care of his responsibilities and he is already getting his house fixed up for us so when the baby come we can move in together. and he has a goooood job working at the funeral home. so y are they acting like this? some one plz help me and tell me what i should do. cause i really don't want to put him up for chiild support........
2006-09-18 03:59:52 · 10 answers · asked by princesspooh1987 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your family wants to make sure he lives up to his manly responsibilities after the baby comes. Promises are just that - some are kept, and some are not. This way, if he decides to back out on his commitment to you and his child - there is already something legally binding in place to protect the child's best interest.
If the child is provided for, this will take the pressure off of you so you can continue through school, and make a better life for yourself.
2006-09-18 04:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by oscarschic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why childsupport, is he not w/u. Tell ur family to lay off and to support u while u need it. In the mean time if ur gonna stay w/this boy (if hes worth staying with) Make all the arraingments and go live w/him (dont leave school). U need to talk w/ur family about that w/ur boyfriend there with u. Once u mention that ur doing this for the good of a father image and a complete family for ur baby they will understand. Good luck
2006-09-18 04:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you and him should take care of this problem not your parents if he said he was going to help you out then he will. Maybe your parents are worried that he won't help you they are just concern about you. And if he ever leaves you you don't need no man to help you take care of your child no man we are woman and we can do it to so don't worried about it. Just be happy that really soon you will be a mommy and just enjoy being pregnant. Good Luck
2006-09-18 04:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by ~My 1st. Girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hunny its your baby your life you have control unless you are a minor still at home ? but what i would do is this .. if i was pregnant with my bfs baby i would not pursue childsupport unless i thought we wouldnt be together after the child was born. but if you guys end up not being together then yes i definetley would file for child support . he is just as much responsible as you are .. good luck hun and may god bless you..
2006-09-18 04:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by txrkanawalls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's about you now not about what other people are saying if you i ok with his satuation do what you think is right. if he's taking care of his responsibility lioke you say don't go there he don't deserve child support now let see how thinks go when the baby came first. good luck, and a well delavery.
2006-09-18 04:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putting him up for child support usually happens when the guy doesn't take care of his responsibilities doesn't it?
2006-09-18 04:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have not said how old you are, or your financial or educational background. Your community is likely to have a community mental health center that provides counseling and advice. Someone needs much more information before they can provide you with education and guidance.
2006-09-18 04:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean sue your boyfriend for child support? A little premature isn't it.
2006-09-18 04:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they love you... you are not married right ? they thought of the future, you only thought about the present. they are afraid that he might abandon you. so don't blame them....
2006-09-18 04:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by yiwei_tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you,can u move out?..if so move...hes already fixen the house,good sign
2006-09-18 04:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋