when me and my ex broke-up it was mutual, we were going to stay friends, but i started seeing someone. then he calls me and tells me that my best friend was calling me a sl** becuase of what i did. so then i called her and she said she didnt say that so she calls him on 3-way(i was suppose to be quiet)but she asks him about itand he says"shes a lying *****, blah blah. so then i said you better tell her the truth and he hung up. he completely ruined any friendship we might have ever had. do you guys know why anyone would ever do that?
2006-09-18 03:48:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm not going to lye, he was a very good bf, thats way im so confussed.
2006-09-18 03:55:54 · update #1
Ok, here is the thing babe gal. the only thing you need to concern yourself with is who you are, dont start searching and listening to what people say about you because you know who you are. If you look forward to hearing what people say about you the you are living to people's expectation, that means you become what people think you are.
On the other hand that guy is nothing but a looser, if you are a person with good morals which at first I thought he was from your story, you dont go around bad-mouthing others because of what happened, in this case the break up. Frastration can make you do things but overall, you control what you do and say, so that is something he wanted to say about you, only it was trapped inside him, waiting for the right moment. Dont worry yourself about this.
I suggest you talk to your friend(the girl) and resolve whatever issues that arised during the mess created by your ex-boyfriend.
2006-09-18 04:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by boago d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, suspicions confirmed as to why you broke up with him in the first place. he is two-faced. no great loss there, that isn't the act of a friend. why he would try to come between you and your best friend i can only surmise that she originally told you something that initiated the breakup in the first place and he was trying to get back at her for it. his deceitfulness will cause him lots of problems in the future, not only that, but now you doubt a lot of things he told you when you were together, he has broken your trust.
2006-09-18 04:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy but hey i might have the best answer on here. (never got o guys for advice...it always screw you up) and jsut to ellet you know...if yall werent friends before the dated then you will never be friends...so jsut give up on that andhe is a jack dont worry about him you can find better.
2006-09-18 03:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by J-Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do what you want, dont give a phuck what anyone else says. if you broke up mutually, then there is nothing wrong with anything. these people are just jealous. live your life and dont think of what other people do or say. cheers.
2006-09-18 03:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt do that. some people could be cruel. try to make up with your friend and dont even talk with your ex.
2006-09-18 03:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move On! its the best thing for you! you deserve to be treated better!
2006-09-18 04:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by carpenter2929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't really need a person around you if they will do that. he wasn't honest with you so he doesn't deserve to be your Friend.
2006-09-18 03:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just wonder "how" or "why" you got with him in the first place!!!
2006-09-18 03:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is not nice, be glad he's ex.
2006-09-18 04:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess because he is a sh**head,,,,
2006-09-18 03:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋