My bff is the bestestest thing ever! but lately when shes around this certain girl... she acts TOTTALY different and blows me off.. like.. the other day we was supposed to go to the movies but this certain girl came over and all of a sudden "going to the movies is stupid" i dont get it. and when shes around me she said this certain girl gets on her nerves... i have a right to be pissed right? Should i talk to her about it?
2006-09-18 03:28:12 · 16 answers · asked by ~*Raymonds World*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
next time the 3 of you are together talk to them and thier reaction will say if there is something going on or not. and dont pre-warn them. and yes you have the right to be mad
2006-09-18 03:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by malaika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you probably should talk to her about it, if its really bothering you. If she is blowing you off, then it doesn't sound like she's really "the bestestest thing ever" or a real "bff". Just sit down with her and ask her what's going on. She probably won't be able to give you a straight answer, but at least she'll know that you notice her behavior and you don't like it. Good luck! :)
2006-09-18 10:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have the right to be upset. This is just childhood games. Yes you need to talk to her about it. Just let her know how you feel. If it continues, slowly drift apart from her. That is really how things happen in life. As you get older, your likes and dislikes change, and that could be what is going on between the 2 of you. It doesn't mean that you hate each other, just that you are growing up.
2006-09-18 10:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it. Maybe your friend feel that she has to put on a act for this other girl so that she will like her. But to treat you like that is just wrong. When I say this i don't mean to hurt your feelings. But if your friend is saying stuff about that other girl to you then maybe she is telling that other girl the same stuff about you. Yes, you should be pissed and defenitly talk to her about it.
2006-09-18 11:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by shy_isha18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally have the right to be pissed! I would definitely talk to her though. If she is your bff you should be able to tell her anything. And if she continues then maybe you should try to make some new friends.
2006-09-18 10:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to be upset with your friend.. Talk to her and get to the bottom of things.. Ask her why she has to pretend to be something she's not when this other girl comes around..
2006-09-18 10:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! u have every right to be pisses at this b i t c h......she is phony a** trick and u need to confront her on her s**t..... if i were u i would tell to step on since she wants to be two faced..... then i'd beat the living s**t outta her
2006-09-18 10:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by sexygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her and tell her what's up.It's not right for her to diss you like that and if she keeps doing it find other friends that are interested in the same things you like
2006-09-18 10:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by Belanova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. No matter what anyone says they are always different around certian people. Talk to her, tell her your problem. If she is your best friend she will hear you out.
2006-09-18 10:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lost In Love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do have a right to be annoyed and talking with her would be the best way to handle this situation. good luck.
2006-09-18 10:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋