she was going with my bro for a while then my guy friend came in and tried to steal her from my brother.i got mad at him for ruining a perfect thing for my brother.he was in mad love with her and no she broke his heart and went for the other guy. so now our friendship hasnt been the same ever since.no she is saying shes mad at me for breaking her and the guy up when she was the one who never liked him and im really sick of her crap and i dont think our friendship will last to long. weve been friends for 10 years now and i really want to keep being best of friends
2006-09-18 03:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by maray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well to begin with your male friend has no concience. to take your brothers girl friend from him and hurt him. but the girl is now broke up with the guy too. serves her right.. she is supose to be your best friend. for 10 years.. That don't mean that she has to be with your brother just because you are friends. she tried for something else and that didn't work out.. that should make you happy in it's self. you don't want someone like that with your brother anyway.. she will only hurt him again..
He will find someone else that is worth being with and better than your girl friend... so be happy for him.. and if you still want to be friends with her , do so, but you are going to have to forget about her discretions. don't worry everyone will find happiness in there own way and in there own time. this one just didn't work out..
If you can't forgive her for what she did to your brother you may as well start looking for someone else to have for a good friend. but don't forget best friends are few and far between.. a best friend is someone that you can talk to about anything and they are always there for you.. If you were truely best friends she should have talked to you about going out on your brother long before it happened.. pick your friends wisely..
2006-09-18 03:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that you have to talk to your friend.. I know she broke your brothers heart, but you have no control over your friends feelings.. I know if someone broke my brother's heart, I'd brake her arm or her nose...It's going to become an uncomfortable situation now, but if you are truly best friends nothing and I mean NOTHING will get in your way...
2006-09-18 03:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she didn't care about your friendship all that much to begin with... she wouldn't have gone out with your brother in the first place... unless you all are 13 or 14 years old.... if not she should have known that something like that could have happened.
2006-09-18 03:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lipstick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she knows that she made a mistake and is looking to blame the one that she is closest to.call her up and talk calmly to her if things don't change then end the friendship family is more important.But please try and fix your friendship first,good friends are hard to come by.good luck.
2006-09-18 03:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out becauses talking always help but if that doesn't work out.....then she wasn't really a good friend to you.....make new friends
2006-09-18 03:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes not happy wherever she is,
i would find a new friend.
2006-09-18 03:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by seanachie60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋