i was talking to this close male friend online last night (no he's not a stranger, he's a legit friend) and he said something to me in one go which i couldnt understand....something very unusual
this is pretty much what he said:
"got to go now, love you...if i could i would.....but i cant....because....doesnt matter - bye"
Now im starting to think he's being a little....odd - i mean he never says "love you" when he's leaving a convo ever!
Okay, i think im being paranoid and i should drop it....What do you think?
2006-09-18 03:07:05 · 32 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is in love with you but because if you or he are in a relationship he is in conflict within himself, he wants to be with you, but because of his morality, he doesn't want to be responsible for the break up in your's or his relationship.
2006-09-18 03:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a g/f or you a b/f? Maybe he feels that way about you but maybe with someone else or you may be with someone? Sounds like he loves you my friend. It seems like he feels he has to hold back for some reason. But he wants to make it known so that the possibility is a possibility instead of the question "what if". Some people go their entire life never taking "that chance." He just did. The question is what are you going to do about it?
2006-09-18 03:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by twinkle toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him (more than friends) then you should just ask him because no one on here knows the true answer, only him. Maybe ending your messages with Love you too and a smiley face so it can be seen as cheeky without being full on.
If you don't feel that way about him, then just drop it, he might have meant it as a tag to test how you feel. No need to open that can of worms if you don't need to. In fact it might be worth mentioning another guy you like to save your friend from embarrassing himself.
2006-09-18 03:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by michelle a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether you want to take it further yourself. I would personally just wait and see what happens. If you want to take it further try just giving positive signals, if not drop random hints in that you not interested.
Do really think that its something that you need to wait out though. Not worth ruining a good friendship by being weird about it, but if it is really worrying you say something or will always be in back of mind when you talking to him which is not good!
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2006-09-18 03:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Petra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound's to me like he like's you, he want's to tell you but he can't, probably because he's not sure how you will react.
This happened to me with one of my male friends he was in a relationship at the time and they was on the verge of breaking up.
Then he started saying all these weird things and asking me weird questions, sometimes he sounded like he was in a dream world.
Then one day he sent me a text saying i really like you, i hope it won't effect our friendship but i had to tell you.
Think about how he has been acting lately has he changed towards you, do you have a boyfriend maybe that's why he doesn't want to say anything.
If he carries on doing or saying things that he doesn't usually, have a chat with him he must be going mad the poor thing!!!
2006-09-18 03:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he made a mistake in typing that if he had to go in a hurry? Did he maybe think you were someone else? Ask him next time you speak to him online, make it light-hearted and don't make a big deal out about it. He maybe does love you and doesn't know how to tell you? Has he got a girlfriend? If so, that may be the reason why he can't do anything about it????
2006-09-18 03:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm, maybe he has developed deeper feelings for you, but for now I would leave it, see if he says something else in future. Would you like this friendship to go further?? Give it time to see what happens, no you are not paranoid if this came out of the blue.
2006-09-18 03:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's starting to have feelings for you that he probably shouldn't ... Is he in a relationship already?
Maybe next time you're chatting, you could bring the chat round to what he meant or feels about you and your friendship. If he's honest enough with you, I reckon he will tell you more.
2006-09-18 03:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay up for a few nights worrying silly then put another silly question up on here that you could have sorted out in a few seconds talking to the geezer.
2006-09-18 03:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Harv S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you more than likely shouldn't feel paranoid... but the only one who can give you a good meaning and answer of what your friend is saying is... your friend, so break down and ask him...
2006-09-18 03:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋