ive been trying to get him (guy 1) with this new girl at school and he likes her but hes still not over me and he talks to her about me constantly. there is this other guy (guy 2) that im friends with but we dated 3 times before and my friend (guy 1) is jealous that i talk to the other guy. what should i do?? i love my friend (guy 1) to death but i feel like i cant talk to other guys because of him.
2006-09-18 02:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by maray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Been there done that and it still happens with my guy friends. I just don't let it bother me. They either get over it or move on.
2006-09-18 02:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, back in the late 80s,,I had a male room-mate.. he was a good friend in our neighborhood, we'd known one another, for years, and one day, while I was at work he come walking in, and I hadn't seen him in a couple years at that point in time, I told him I had an apartment down the street and would he want to be "Roommates" with me, and we'd split the rent.. We became roommates, well later, after about a year of living with one another, my female friend was over partying with me, and he was all "She's fine, and I would love to get with her!!" Well, I knew Micky, for years, and I also knew she would break his heart.. Like she did so many others, and I looked at Billy as my brother, in a way.. Well, she was all flurting with him, and thats when I crossed a line I would have never normally crossed.. I kissed him, to let Micky think I wanted him, so she'd back off... Well, Billy asked me, the next day, what that was all about Last night, and I told him, I didn't want Micky digging her claws into him, and that she would have just used him, he said I could of handled her, and proceeded to want some more of me, to pick-up, where we left-off, from the night before.... thats when I had to tell him, I love him like a brother and I would do anything for him, but that I didn't want to cross that line,and ruin our relationship, as friends... Now, years later, I wish I'd of went for him, and I wish I could get ahold of him somehow.. He's probably got someone, by now.. I wish we'd of kept in contact.. If your not seeing him, dont worry about what he thinks, unless you want both of them... Sounds like you cant make up your mind.. If your worried about what he thinks, there's more to this picture, than your telling us... You need to get away from both of them for awhile, to see how you really feel about both of them, so you can get a better "Perspective" of things.... Good-Luck, to you!!
2006-09-18 10:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not criticizing women but this is how they think. When they meet a guy they first deciede whether he has to be a friend or a llover.They even want the friend to act and behave like lovers , but no matter how much she likes the guy and no matter how much she's impressed with him, it is impossible to change that stance of "oh, we r just friends".
2006-09-18 09:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have a relationship with the one that you want to be with the most.
2006-09-18 09:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love guy 1 and he loves you just go with him
2006-09-18 09:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swear him to secrecy then tell him you are total lesbian. that you are just faking it with him and every other guy.
unless of course you have had sex with him
in which case tell him the experience was so bad that he turned you into a lesbian
2006-09-18 09:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by stillness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with the one you feel is right , it seems to me you've already made up your mind now you just have to tell them
2006-09-18 13:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by leanngreek@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the one that you love less that you can't be with him you already have a crush or something.
2006-09-18 09:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Chelle Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off. You need to do this or he will never get over you. Be nasty.
2006-09-18 09:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋