Ever since I have become pregnant i can not seem to stand my boyfriend. Everything he says and does gets on my nerves. Iam constantly jumping down his throat. Am i being mean?
2006-09-18 02:25:56 · 22 answers · asked by PRETTYGIRL 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
IT IS CALLED HORMONES... they (i mean men) have to understand that and not take it too personal... am the same way...but in my case, am the one who end up gettin on his nerves... but he is starting to understand whats goin on even though its hard, i mean, they have to feel it to know what it feels like.... just talk to him and try to explain that to him... hopefully he will understand and work on it to have you happy.....
GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
2006-09-18 03:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by my_sweet_love <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HORMONES! It's like being in a constant state of PMS. Sit down and talk to him- and apologize! Tell him you aren't angry, you are just moody, because your body is going through so many changes. You may need to control yourself- think a little more about what you say, before you say it. I understand, because I've been there, but he probably doesn't. Unless you really are angry? Do you resent him because of what you are going through? I don't know how far along you are, but this stuff usually improves towards the middle of pregnancy, but you may be grouchy during the last parts too, just because of feeling miserable. Just try to put yourself in his shoes, and make a conscious effort to be more patient and understanding. Good Luck!
2006-09-18 02:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by tntwade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your hormones right now. Whenever I get pregnant (mom of 3 with one on the way) everything my husband does pisses me off. During my first pregnancy my husband got a book about the expectant father. He got to read about what the woman goes through and understood my bitchiness. I wish that he would re-read it with this pregnancy, he seems to be jumping down my throat when I jump down his.
2006-09-18 02:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by dj1973 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it hormones. It is probably normal but try and relax and back off. He doesn't mean to be stupid and annoying, he just is a male. You have crossed into a world that he will never know and are suddenly more mature and thinking a lot more about things. He will probably irritate you from now on. That is normal. It sucks, but its normal, at least in my opinion and those of my friends.
2006-09-18 02:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you are being a little mean. But in pregnancy this is normal. If this wasn't a planned pregnancy... you maybe angry with him for "doing this to you" But I would say remember that you loved him enough to lay down with him and make this baby so love him now and forever! Good Luck!
2006-09-18 02:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by NaVy WiFeY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a bit,but,it"s not entirely your fault.Because of your pregnancy there is a hormonal imbalance that your body is going through in preparation for carrying and delivery of the child.I can see with your boyfriend because i went through the same thing myself with my significant other.But,not to worry,everything will gradually return to normal.
2006-09-18 02:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very normal, I also think it will change back to loving your hormones are all screwed up, try to control yourself and don't say to much you'll regret, be patient with your self. Have a talk with your boyfriend that you do love him you're sorry for being so emotional unstable and to be patient with you, this is all new to you too.
2006-09-18 02:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completly normal your hormons are what the dr's say going out of wack. I hated my husband did not want him to touch me look at me or even talk to me. Hopefully he understands it is due to the pregnancy and not just you. Hope you have a healthy beautiful baby.
2006-09-18 02:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by kim12074 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely 100% normal. In both my pregnancies I hated at least one person. Unfortunately for you it seems to be the person you spend the most time with. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-18 02:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by Slk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you can only hate someone if you have deep feelings for them. It would be weird if you hated a total stranger but hating your significant other is quite natural, especially now that you are pregnant. Subconsciously you are blaming him for the whole thing.
2006-09-18 02:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Courage 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋