help! i need it~?

Question

i have a problem, how to tell my identical sister, that i hate her and want her to die!
I am sry, bg info she had s<> with my fiance.
And, then said she didn't realize?
and he claims he thought it was me~

and excuse me if i think that is was flippin rude~!

Answer 1

I believe that the two of you should go to a family therapist and talk about it. Don't say that you want to kill her, I know that you are angry and right now don't know what you are really saying, but please don't wish for something that you don't really want. Trust in the Lord and pray for advice to know how to deal with this situation. I'm sure He will hear and resolve this.

Answer 2

Have the two of them ever met before? you apparently have the same taste in men. if they hadn't met she is not to fault.. was like she said she didn't realize she was doing any thing wrong. and if you are really identical twins your boy friend probably didn't know the difference either.. but i am sure that your actions and the way you talk and express yourself are different. he should have figured out that something was wrong.. before he had sex with her.. That is a real problem with being twins.. some twins i know do this as a joke.. but you don't apparently think it is to funny..
If she knew you were going with him i don't blame you for being pissed.. but otherwise.. you can't really blame her either.. if you can live with what happened.. for give and forget.. if you can't you may want to move on..
make sure from now on that you tell your sister he is yours and tell her to stay away from him.. And did he know you had a identical twin sister... alot of questions here and you didn't give a whole lot of info..
good luck

Answer 3

you need a radical make over, hair color, cut, style, change the way you dress, the way you wear your make up - be sure you don't imitate your sister in any way. I would dump the guy, because if he can't tell you apart now, what happens 10 years from now, or in the mean time. please do not imitate your sister's mannerisms or anything else, be modest, be kind, be loving, but be you. Your sister knew and did not tell your bf.

Answer 4

talk to her in a nice way, because she is still your twin sister, just tell her that she did something wrong and she should know that it is not right to have s-- with your fiance, what if you do the same thing with her what would she feel, and about your fiance? i just want to know how long have you been steady for not realizing that he' doing it with the wrong girl.

Answer 5

I would say to dump the boyfriend even though you all are twins that guy should know the difference by now.Because you and your sister probably have different personalities.

Answer 6

ummmmm Don't tell her you hate her and want her to die... She is the only identical twin u will ever have
She shouldn't have had sex w/ur fiance and he should have been able to tell whether it was u er not

Answer 7

I think you should dump your boyfriend and then dont talk to your sister ever again, ignore and make sure you let her know that she is a ***** for sleeping with your boyfriend. Tell your boyfriend that he is worthless and that you will never be with someone who is also trying to sleep with your own sister, He is sick

Answer 8

yeah thats pretty bad...she really shouldnt have done that...but she did and hatred is not the answer. you fiance should have known better than to think it was you, thats pathetic even if you are identical twins.

Answer 9

er? hate consumes the one doin the hating,not the hated. i know it hurts,but try to just let it go,what goes around comes around

Answer 10

well one of you needs help
what a sorry bunch