2006-09-18 01:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by lopez d 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
Perhaps because you did not enjoy being even alone !
2006-09-18 01:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get lonely whenever I'm not around people, however, I always put myself in this situation. I have no idea why..it's like I want to be miserable by myself. I have no desire to maintain friendships and I push people away from me on purpose. Is there anyone else out there like this? Do I have some kind of disorder? I feel like I'm really unbalanced most of the time. I cry when I'm by myself alot even though I don't physically change the situation and go out with friends and do something. What's wrong with me?
2006-09-18 14:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by ravinderpal s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a lot of good answers here. what are you going to do?
every one is lonely, but they fill it up with so many things both material and psychological. those who don't build these defense mechanisms are the ones who realize they're lonely. now, there is no need to fill oneself up with things, one can, they say, turn this into positivity, which is aloneness. this is full, rich and a satisfying way of life which is of freedom and love. perhaps one must look. we're going to die ultimately. that will be very lonely too.
2006-09-18 04:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once read: "If you can't enjoy your own company, don't expect others to enjoy it" - the idea being to try and evelope your character on your own, become the kind of person you want to be, independantly of others, and you will find that some people will be seeking out your company. That, of course, is only part of the answer.
Try to be a helpful person, look for places you can do volonteer work, join some interest group..... but, also cultivate your own company -that's important!
2006-09-19 06:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all in your mind. You have to change your way of perceiving the world around you and you also have to change your present life style. You need to go out more and interact with different people, and find the kind of people you truly enjoy your time with. You need quality time in your life.
2006-09-18 02:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kanda 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may be ur not enjoying ur self or u dont have anyone to share ur problems or ur secrets or ur laughters and may be u want someone to be ur life partner and u dont wana live alone that's y .........u living lonely lifeeee
2006-09-18 05:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you make it. Lonliness is a state of mind. There is someone, somewhere for everyone. Go find that someone.
2006-09-18 04:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Saudi Geoff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is full of billions of people. It is strange how you have not found out some friend till now!. If possible mail me
2006-09-18 01:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you haven't discovered your Best Friend, yet--God.
He has a way of fixing stuff like that.
2006-09-18 02:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by GypsyGr-ranny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same problem
2006-09-21 05:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋