Not something i am interested in but have often found it hard to understand. Can it be fun or just plain painfull?
2006-09-18 01:23:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How wou;d i go about getting my fiancee to have a go withou freaking her out? Should i just introduce play things or toys or just ask straiight out?
2006-09-18 02:06:49 · update #1
sexually liberated.
2006-09-18 01:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love my backside being simply 'stroked.' I find my breathing changes, becomes deeper and I become more relaxed.
Your question has an area that confuses me - 'can it be fun or just plain painful.'
It can be fun, by why should 'fun' turn into 'painful'?
My assumption is that you have to be referring to something with sadomasochistic terms/ tones. Obviously, there are some people (male and female) who enjoy the painful side of things ...otherwise they simply wouldn't indulge themselves,
For some, 'pain' = 'fun,' and my assumption is that it is like 'having an itch' where if you simply scratch it, it goes away. On the other hand, 'you can scratch the itch in such a way that you can prolong the pleasure' - and even induce further sensory ones.
Sash.
2006-09-21 00:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liberated
2006-09-25 09:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by scott j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fun. Stimulating and often a part of sex play. Not a homosexual issue. Embarrassing to some, routine to others. There is a stimulation center in the area of the prostate that often heightens sexual pleasure for men, which is why they do it. Enjoy if you wish!
2006-09-18 08:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexually liberated ... comfortable with their bodies and know what they want.
If you're interested, I'd suggest you start by playing with your girlfriend's b u m and if she likes it, ask her to try it on you too. If she's not keen, I think you'd be better of not mentioning it to her.
The toy idea is good too ... get a vibe up your b u m and see how it feels when you masturbate, then do the same with your girlfriend when you're making whoopee
2006-09-18 09:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexually liberated, many straight guys enjoy having their prostate stimulated. Just cause you like having a part of your body that is sometimes associated with homosexual sex, it doesn't make you homosexual.
After all, If a guy likes to receive oral stimulation, this doesn't mean he is homosexual yet this is a practice carried out regularly in homosexual encounters.
2006-09-18 17:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by frontera2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexually liberated. There are a lot of things people do in the privacy of their relationship that others might find deviant. I say if it feels good and it isn't hurting anyone, go for it!
2006-09-18 08:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Iknowsomestuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is a sexual desire for men, NOT just a desire for anal stimulation!! That comes about because it's the only real option for them.
Men have a g-spot up there, whether they want to aknowledge it or not... if you got someone who knew what they were doing, I think you would ALL probably enjoy it. (physically, at least)
2006-09-18 08:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no more gay than enjoying playing with yourself is! Some people really enjoy it, others find it painful. It can be very stimulating having your prostrate massaged!!
Being gay is not about sex - it affects a whole lot of other things too!
2006-09-18 08:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Fluffy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about whether both want to try this or not. If it's acceptable then it's your personal business. Try talking around the subject an bit and you'll soon know if she fancies it or not.
2006-09-23 19:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexually liberated and fun
2006-09-18 08:26:09 · answer #11 · answered by Jane S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋