seems everywhere I look someone is cheating on someone else and neevr being satisfied with what they HAVE, and many times kids are involved and the marriage break up has a massive effect on them, is there anything "real" anymore in terms of marriage and NOT running out and giving up at the hint of disaster or bordem?
2006-09-18 01:01:12 · 24 answers · asked by distalbicept 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We've been together for 15 yrs since aged 20. Sure we've had our ups and downs But the one thing that has kept us together is that we have never been unfaithful. Loyalty in a relationship is huge. If my man cheated I would leave him in an instant.In the end sex is just sex, you don't achieve anything by having multiple partners. But if you get a partner who is loyal,loving and respecting then there is no reason to ever want to cheat as you wouldn't want to lose a good thing.
2006-09-18 01:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are couples who are faithful, I know I've always been and I'm absolutely sure that my husband hasn't, because we're still crazy in love after 20+ years. We've known a few who've had affairs, but for the most part we find that the majority of our friends are faithful, though some of them have been married more than once.
Marriage or being together isn't always a piece of cake ( or a piece of anything else.LOL) There can be bad times, too , and one thing I've found is knowing when to talk and knowing when to shut up is important.
Next to infidelity, it's boredom and being in a rut; try to change routines and really pay attention to one another. It's hard when kids, work and daily problems mount up, so,,,,,,,,,, So, look at your partner and remember the way you treated each other when you met and fell in love. Then be that person again. He/she may respond the same way.
Every one doesn't cheat, and I hope you find the one for you.
2006-09-18 08:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time I ever cheated was in thee 6th grade. I had a "school boyfriend" that my grandparents didn't know about, and a "church boyfriend" that they did know about. Well I made the mistake of telling the school bf that I was going to the zoo on Sunday with the youth group, and he showed up and caught me with the other bf. I was humiliated. I vowed then that I would NEVER do that again. And I haven't, even after being married to a US Navy sailor for 10 years, and a truck driver for 7 years. I spend alot of time alone, and that is just fine. I TOTALLY believe that loyalty to your self is more important than a roll in the hay with someone that could just ruin your life, their life, the kids, etc. So YES, I can say that there really is people out here that do not cheat and are totally against it!
2006-09-18 08:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep me, 36 years married lots of disasters 2 kids 2 grandkids ,mortgage, large phone bills a dog with a drinking problem and over weight cat and a house that just never keeps tidy, I'm lucky but we have worked at it and had some close calls over the years
it doesn't always work but it does sometimes ,dint be scared off you might miss out on what you are looking for, life is very short but long and lonely on your own.
Good luck and don't let pass experience turn you off just leave them where they belong ..in the past.
2006-09-18 08:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by mummapink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There is the real love that was once in exhistance, without the cheating and the lies and the immorality. It is just so hard to find because people get married knowing that they can get out of it so easily if they choose to. Divorce is easier than marriage; and in a society where we are being taught to take the easy way out, what more can we respect. We have to have classes and permits to get a drivers liscense, why not to get married?
2006-09-18 08:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by 2ndammendmentsupporter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not ever going to cheat on a husband and there could be a temptation. but I do believe that any husbands and wives should be true and happy together through hardships and etc. Like my hubby left me after being a month and half of marriage and I was left confused. I do think there are should be a real term in marriage like death do us apart instead leaving do us apart.
2006-09-18 13:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Deaf Cowgirl 27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. My wife and I would never ever cheat. Why we cant even get enough of each other as it is now. We have been married for 22 years.
Loving someone so much that you would never hurt them makes a strong marriage. If problems with sex then work it out together. As my wife says she has an affair that will last a lifetime. So don't I. We are having an affair of our life with each other.
2006-09-18 08:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is what you make of it. No I would never cheat. I don't think I would want to. After 26 yrs the passion is still there it is just shown differently. Marriage is for life.
2006-09-18 08:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ever find some who is gonna be honest, open and faithfull with you then I envy you, coz so far it's not working my side. I've always been the faithfull one, yet I'm always the one getting hurt by men cheating on me. It's really hurtfull, and almost makes you wonder if you can ever trust anyone again, hey!?
2006-09-18 08:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is terrible some people don't know the real value of a relationship. there are people out there though that do not and will not cheat. i will never cheat and neither will my wife. that's the reason we got married, we want to be with each other and only with each other
2006-09-18 23:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by matt B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋